67 Evanston, United States
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My self-summary
I know about cats and dogs. I am a devoted father to my daughters...and am still there for their calls even tho' they are on their own. I am runner and swimmer, and I have taken up yoga. I love good blue grass and good blues; good jazz and classical. I can enjoy watching Casablanca and An American in Paris or The Hulk and There's Something About Mary. I enjoy reading a good mystery novel and philosophy of science. I listen; I have no problems cleaning the house; I never have to be told to take the garbage our; and I always leave the toilet seat down. I love cooking together and random hugs while dicing onion or in an aisle at Publics. I can be a best friend and passionate lover. I am curious, energetic, but enjoy finding the time to do nothing. I am relatively new to the area -- here just 4 years, and I am starting down a new path.
What I’m doing with my life
I work at one of the Colleges intone area directing advising, and trying to impact students lives and the lives of those who live in the community
I’m really good at
Seeing the posibilities ...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Zorba the Greek, Mountains Beyond Mountains, Cassablanca, good music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If you had three movements — a run, a jump and a fall, you would think, well, you run; you jump up; and then you fall. But what if you toss the coin and it comes up you have to do the fall first and then the jump and then the run. It breaks down what dancers, in particular, have muscular memories of how things should go. But instead of saying, 'That's impossible,' you try it out. --Merce Cunningham--

We can always step farther than we believe.
On a typical Friday night I am
I am trying to figure that out!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am looking for a best friend and lover. Someone who will chance to risk to be open...genuinely open...and realizing in taking that risk she will open to all those things in her self she hopes to feel. Someone I can open to. And someone with whom I can walk side-by-side, hold at night, and bring coffee to in the morning after I come in from a run. And I make damn good coffee!
You should message me if
We know this is such a gamble. We put ourselves out on this social network hoping that the pictures and words we put out there will market to someone. But we cannot be sure that anything we see is genuine. We just hope that the veneer of appeal, like a good lure, will let us set the hook and reel somebody in. In our hearts we know it doesn't work that way. Perhaps it's the "distance myth". Maybe I am not the person who would first draw your interest. But then what if there was something surprising you could find out....

Would you really know without taking the chance to chat ...really chat ...