45 Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
I live fully, laugh loudly, love deeply, learn constantly, and look for ways to leave a lasting positive impact every day.
What I’m doing with my life
Exactly what I've always wanted to do. Every day.
I’m really good at
- pointing out the hilarious/ridiculous
- board games (I'm not really... i'm just insanely competitive where most don't care)
- impressions of people famous and notsomuch
- killing plants (UNINTENTIONALLY.. geez I'm not a monster!).
- elaborate practical jokes
- cooking. NOT baking.
- noticing details
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm usually smiling or laughing about something.
Common courtesy.
I pay attention.
I'm genuinely curious about anything and everyone.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
This is better unveiled through lots of conversation... but:

Books: way too hard. So many books, so many reasons... At the moment Jhumpa Lahiri, Nepo, Robert Cialdini, are on nightstand. A few others in "active status" on the iPad.

Movies: Usual Suspects, Color Purple, 6 Degrees of Separation, I <3 Huckabees, Closer, Eternal Sunshine, Amelie, Casablanca, Godfather I & II, Freakonomics and Ken Burns documentaries.

Music: Vast. Wildy so. Very few constraints here if the artist is authentic and passionate.

Food: As cultural expression, as heritage, as collaboration, as the only art that can stimulate every sense, and ultimately must be consumed. The spicier the better IMHO.
The six things I could never do without
Family (friends included here)
Laughing so hard it hurt
Travel near and far
Water (as in "large body of". for diving, swimming, sailing, kayaking, wave jumping, centering, floating)
Purpose. Impact.
A piano and/or a drum to play at home.
8. Breaking rules and conventions. Six things? Pssssh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
On a typical Friday night I am
Wondering if THIS is the night that the raccoon family in my backyard stages a 2AM coup for that unintentional hose incident a few months back.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Riiiiight.... that's gonna happen.
You should message me if
You're not looking for a pen pal or hyper about a hook-up.