I am Jewish, a non-believer with a strong sense of Jewish identity. The man that I date need not be Jewish. Incompatible would be anyone for whom religion is exceedingly important... any religion.
I also, as you will have gleaned after having read this profile, have a penchant for parentheses. (Exclamation points too!)
Movies: usually foreign and indies although there have been some terrific American movies in the past few years, in particular "The Visitor."
Theater: usually off Broadway; rarely big musicals.
Food: Anything that is well prepared and made with great ingredients.
Music: Bach, Mendelsohn, etc., etc., Country, Latin, have just begun to appreciate Elvis Presley(!). True confession: I generally prefer to listen to arias (Pavarotti over Domingo) rather than entire operas.
When I'm home I think I couldn't live without my stuff and when I'm away I don't miss it at all.