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My self-summary
i am an enigma. I consider myself a Christian, but not all of my beliefs and experiences fit into a traditional Christian framework. I am kind of a mystic, and have found truth in many different religions. I try to be social-justice oriented, and I would like to find someone who shares a passion for the poor and oppressed in our society.. I believe in living simply, but have been known to splurge.

I am also not a "typical" guy; I am very much in touch with my feminine side, and if this is a problem, we probly aren't a good match. (That said, I am still very much heterosexual,; and I do know how to take charge when I need to.)

While this all sounds pretty serious, I'm actually very fun-loving and socially liberal. While I usually date Christians, I am open to dating people of other faiths if we have enough in common. I love animals, especially squirrels. I am many things at once, and I think you would enjoy getting to know me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a musician and a writer. I play in a band called Streaking in Tongues. I work odd jobs to keep my bills paid. I just published my first children's book.
I’m really good at
music, writing, philosophy, teaching, word games, etc. I have also been told i'm a pretty good kisser ;).
The first things people usually notice about me
not really sure..you tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
favorite music: After the Minor, Apocalyptica, Alice in Chains, Arcade Fire, the Breeders, Bridgeshadows, Blue Dahlia, Coriolis, the Cure, Death, Depeche Mode, Disturbed, the Doors, Eels, Fiona Apple, Fleetwood Mack, Florence and the Machine, Foo Fighters, Garbage, Hole, the Illalogical Spoon, Joy Division, KMFDM, Leper, Lightning Love, Marilyn Manson, Mazzy Star, (old) Metallica, Miles Davis, Ministry, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Orgy, Pantera, Pearl Jam, A Perfect Circle, the Pixies, Psalters, Radiohead, Rage Against the Machine, Rammstein, Slipknot, Sleepytime Gorilla Museum, Smashing Pumpkins, Sonic Youth, Tool, Veruca Salt, Violent Femmes, White Stripes. This list keeps getting longer.

favorite books: anything by Kurt Vonnegut, C.S. Lewis, John Howard Yoder, James Cone, Joseph Campbell, Dallas Willard, Eckhart Tolle, Thomas Merton, Kallistos Ware, or Walter Wink.

favorite food: pasta, pizza, subs, tacos, fajitas, chicken wings, steak, ice cream, and blueberry pie
Six things I could never do without
in no particular order - love, music, God, friends/family, nature, writing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I can connect with God

what I can do to help the poor and lonely

why it's so rare to find people who are open about both their spirituality and sexuality
On a typical Friday night I am
After work I may be at home reading or watching a movie, sometimes I am out at a bar or club with some friends, sometimes I'm playing a show or recording with my band. I usually like to do something social.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I said it here, it wouldn't be private, now would it?
You should message me if
you like anything you see here! I am ultimately looking for a serious relationship, but not in a hurry. Always up for some fun. If you like what you see, don't hesitate to send me a message.
The two of us