39 Washington, United States
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My self-summary
I am the best kind of hot: I'm hot, but I don't know I'm hot. I am not looking for an exclusive relationship at the moment, but I am not looking for a hookup either. Definitely looking for intimacy, caring, doing stuff together. Just can't promise exclusivity or a forever commitment right now.

I am affectionate, hedonistic, and a little oblivious. I’ll assume that as long as we had a nice steak, good drinks, and dirty sex, everything’s fine and it’s time for cuddling and sleep.

Don't let my size and manly scruff fool you; I dote on my nieces, save bugs trapped indoors, and foster kittens for the humane society. I think I even cried once, back in 1987.

(I confess I thought the kitten fostering might be a good way to meet girls...so I guess you could say I got into cat fostering for the pussy. If you didn't laugh you should take 'sense of humor' off your profile because that bit kills.)
What I’m doing with my life
Championing the underprivileged. And pie.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall. Really tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lately I am on a Michel Houellebecq kick. And watching Making a Murderer, like everyone else I guess.
Weird fiction--Thomas Ligotti. H.P. Lovecraft. William Browning Spencer.
A Soldier of the Great War. Travis McGee, Richard Stark. On a big Neko Case kick right now.
I was unimpressed by Birdman but teared up at the end of Creed, and I don't care who knows it.
The six things I could never do without
Books, exercise, close friends, meat, ideas, downtime.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Lately I've been thinking and reading a lot about the tension between globalism/universalism and a more local, rooted, connected way of living. It's hard for human beings to find meaning as one of 7 billion on the planet, with most of our interactions with others mediated by money/the market. We evolved to live in communities of about 200 where we knew and were connected with everyone, not getting concerned about a new person we'll never meet each day because Facebook tells us to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
There is one lie in this profile.
You should message me if
Your favorite flavor isn't vanilla.

You are ok with nonexclusive dating for now, even if you aren't a polyamorist or whatever.