55Charlotte, United States
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My self-summary
I'd like to know up front that I'm not using okcupid as a social networking site. I'm not here to make friends. I'm here to find a lover/companion/LTR. If I contact you, its because I'm attracted to you. I want to go out on a date. If we don't hit it off, we can be become/remain friends. But I AM looking for romantic love.

I am a nice, intelligent, humorous, easy-going guy from a nice, creative, passionate family. My needs are basic and simple, my wants, hopes and dreams are not so simple.

I am playful, charming, and shy. I am very affectionate, funny, sexy.
What I’m doing with my life
Living with as much passion as I can, focusing on people, experiences, and relationships rather than on career achievements, awards of merit, and material accumulation.
I’m really good at
making people laugh; playing the piano; dancing, giving massages; blending into new situations/places; making meals from simple foods; cuddling; writing; making love; classical music.
The first things people usually notice about me
are my eyes. People say that they can see me soul through my eyes and that they show the goodness that is in me. People often tell me I'm "cute", without specifying in what way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pride and Prejudice, The Scarlet Letter, Love in the Time of Cholera, The Border; Gone with the Wind, The Great Escape; classical, flamenco, latin-american, country; pasta, meat and potatoes, mexican, anything with rice.
Six things I could never do without
Sleep; my favorite female cousin; water; sunlight, my connection to Spain, sugar.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how I can make my life even better, and one big way to do that is to find a partner who wants to share it with me.
On a typical Friday night I am
treating myself to an evening of carefree enjoyment, whether that means sitting at home watching something good one TV, going to a friend's house, or making a good meal for myself.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I used to say here that I'm a nudist. But that's not really private. Everyone knows that! So ask me something else.
You should message me if
If you're drawn to anything I said and you are interesting in having a relationship with me, and if you are a non-smoker.
The two of us