oksweetmen
48Manhattan, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a happy woman of great substance and depth, a titillating mind, and a spring in my step, even though my feet are planted firmly on the ground. I love my life and who I am, laugh easily, and have always had a positive outlook. What else is there?

I have range, but at my core, I'm an elegant, loyal, smart, sweet, easy going, down to earth and calm, sophisticated, accomplished, family oriented woman with a warm heart. Authentic and imperfect. I value integrity and tolerance, peace, and I believe in love, being real, a great connection and an open heart...because from there anything is possible in life.

Most often I have a smile on my face, a joy about everything I do. I choose to be with positive, fun people, like myself, who are centered and happy with themselves and their life.

Like you, I have no problem meeting men, yet I'm living my life, not hanging at bars or go out every night looking for a mate. So, this is just another avenue of chance. One never knows.

I live a peaceful and fun life and prefer no drugs, no STD's no emotional issues, no Republicans and especially Trump voters or third parties, no climbers, please. Also, I'm sorry if I don't get back to you right away and I hope you can be patient. Yikes! I didn't realize how many hours this takes!
What I’m doing with my life
Life has been good to me. I've have done almost everything I wanted to do, and I'm very happy....I know it could be even better falling asleep every night in the arms of the man I'll adore for a lifetime. When we both feel the peace of 'home' together, we'll know it'll last forever.

I'd like to find that relationship. I'm not here to serial date; I'm looking for one real connection. I prefer he takes the time to get to know me, and me him and see how we are together. I need a peaceful relationship....with a deep guy and deep love. No drama please. Make sense?

In my ideal relationship, we have more activity day dates and healthy delish meals at home vs. night on the town dates that involve heavy drinking. So, how about starting out with a tea for our first date, or if summer a walk in the park? Or, I'm open to suggestions.
I’m really good at
I'm told I'm a great communicator, and can open my heart and love deeply -excellent at giving and receiving love and affection :). Above average and courageous in business.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall and thin. Positive energy. Calm, easy going confident nature. Funny, even though this profile is sounding serious! Yikes!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Pandora, Mexican, Seafood, Sushi, French, Ice Cream and Chocolate. I love so many movies -and thank rottentomatoes.com for guiding my choices....much like okcupid. Bravo on the questions. Certainly has been rather...errr...insightful.
Six things I could never do without
DVR & HD, everything technology
my bike
love, affection, & kissing
good health & healthy lifestyle
lip balm
sunshine, beach, summer
#7 hope
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I try to live in the moment. But, one thing that's hard to turn off are entrepreneurial ideas constantly popping into my head.
On a typical Friday night I am
There's very little typical about me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I eat super healthy. Yet, I'm certain dark chocolate is a food group.

And, I'm not here to serial date. I'm looking for one real connection and genuine love. I prefer he takes the time to get to know me, and me him and see how we are together. I prefer a peaceful relationship....with a deep man and a deep love. No drama please. This article, which you can google, "There is Something Better than Finding a Soulmate.", describes the type of connection I hope to find.
You should message me if
I'm looking for that rare and special man with great substance, quality and depth, a mensch, a professional man who has his life together (emotionally, physically and financially), and a man who loves to laugh and enjoy every day. Like me, he's looking for his life partner filled with healthy passion, deep friendship, and a joy that last into our 90's as we still want to hold hands together. I'm not interested in dating guys who are only ready or capable of a long-term relationship or a fling. If your profile if empty or fluffy, please share your substance when you write so I don't think you are like most guys on here who seem to lack substance (at least in their profiles and emails).

What else is important to me? It's easy to find a man with great things, but difficult to find a man with greatness; that is what I'm holding out for...a man who is compassionate, calm and easy going, kind, honest, intelligent, non-judgemental, and a great communicator with a deep capacity to love and nurture. Available, grounded. Needs a connection. A man who can see my best self despite my imperfections. A mindful and gentle but strong man with the capacity to become as deeply devoted to me as I would be to him. A man who's not afraid of life, change, sacrifice to move ahead in life. A man who laughs easily and finds as much joy in the small things as he does in the big things. Someone who understands lasting partnerships grow when two people lovingly take care of each other, even during conflict. Self and issue aware - knowing how important that is for conflict resolution. He's ready, able and wanting to open his heart, fall in love, and have a lifelong, loving, peaceful partnership with a great woman.

Most of all, if you kiss from the heart...you are my kind of guy.

*disclaimer: I live a peaceful and fun life and prefer no drugs, no STD's no emotional issues, no Republicans and especially Trump voters, please.
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