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My self-summary
I have followed the road to ruin far beyond the last exit. The brief intermissions on my endless journey seem like brief intermissions on an endless journey.

Seriously, I live an unconventional life. I've been happily married to the same woman for fifry years. We have two grown children of whom we're proud. We've never owned a television, so we've always talked to one another, and our children learned to read and write unusually well. We were into swinging for four years, over thirty years ago, and had to quit because of the cumulative damage done by the sexually transmitted diseases we picked up. I'm a trust junkie and I like women, so I turned to bondage: I enjoy tying and teasing women. I'm not sexually needy so I usually go to the extreme of keeping my clothes on, which makes for a better tease. Probably a little more embarrassing than you can stand, but I'll cuddle you afterward. I can be really comforting too.

Obviously I can't relate to every woman in that way, not even every woman who wants to relate to me in that way. Since I do like women, I'm also happy to be a friend. I'm a good listener. I'm understanding. I'm weed-friendly, though as an activist for legalization I can't keep a stash of my own. I'm violently allergic to cats and irrationally hostile to tobacco. Dogs love me, though I'm told that dogs love everybody, and there's been one or two that were jealous.

I'm partly retired, partly a homemaker, and partly a professional gambler. Back when we were still raising our kids, I worked in the computer software industry. Curious bit of history, that! It no longer seems to have any meaning.
What I’m doing with my life
Before enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.

After enlightenmnet, chop wood, carry water.

Besides chopping wood and carrying water, I do autistic support on the Internet, play a bit of poker, wander the wilderness, and hang with friends. Some of those friends are tied down, on their bed or mine, but most aren't.
I’m really good at
Listening. Thinking. Understanding.

I give very good attention.
The first things people usually notice about me
The Lincolnesque distribution of facial hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Games People Play (by Eric Berne), Journey to Ixtlan (by Carlos Castaneda), The Great Divorce (by C.S. Lewis)

Movies: Bad Day at Black Rock, Blow Up, Brazil, Cast Away, Choose Me, Cloud Atlas, Dr. Strangelove, Forrest Gump, Fried Green Tomatoes, Gandhi, The Gods Must be Crazy, Himalaya, The Imitation Game, Indiana Jones / Kingdom of the Crystal Skull, Inherit the Wind, The Insider, Leaving Las Vegas, the entire Lord of the Rings trilogy, Modern times, Return of the Jedi, Sling Blade, Snow Cake, The Truman Show, Yellow Submarine

Music: eclectic tastes centered on rock.

Food: whatever I'm craving at the moment.
Six things I could never do without
Water. Air. Fire. Earth. Food. Tools.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If Hitler had been born in Nazi Germany, would he have been content to enjoy the scenery?

No, I don't really.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with my wife after wandering all day in the wilderness.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm elaborately secretive.
You should message me if
You're a shy woman and I somehow appeal to you.
The two of us