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My self-summary
**I've been MIA for a little while now, been focused on getting started with my new job. I'm back on now**

Hi! I'm 31, a single father of an amazing 4 year old girl, spent 12 years in the military, and I'm a registered nurse. There, now the baseline stats out of the way, I'll just say that I'm a fun person with a big heart who really just tries to enjoy life. I know when to have fun and I know when to take things seriously. I know what I want in a person, and I know what I wont settle for just anyone (I know that sounds relatively harsh, but I'm being honest!), so we'll see! The rest of the details I'll leave for actual conversation, no sense in putting it all here and then having nothing to talk about!
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working as a registered nurse in a hospital, I just got out of the military after 12 years (4 in the Army active duty and 8 as an Air Reserve Medic), and I am a single father with a daddys girl lol (I'm screwed in like 10 years). Right now I'm working on saving for a house and helping two close friends whose house just burnt down recently.
I’m really good at
Being a dad, sarcasm, laughing, helping people, and being a pain in the ass (I've been perfecting that for 31 years)
The first things people usually notice about me
My sarcastic sense of humor, my smile, and my eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: I don't have a preference on food, I'm the quintessential omnivore, I like everything (except calamari... that stuff is just... wrong.), and I'm willing to try anything once to see if I like it.

Books: I'm kind of a nerd when it comes to books. I like books in the fantasy genre as well as books about healthcare or current events.

Music: I have a very eclectic taste in music. I go from hardcore to dubstep to Dropkick Murphys (personal favorite) to just about anything else.

Movies: Boondock Saints is my all time favorite, Shawshank Redemption, Black Hawk Down, Exorcism of Emily Rose, Zombieland, Afro Samurai, typical guy movies I suppose. Really anything with zombies is wonderful lol.

Shows: I watch the Bruins, am obsessed with the Sox, and occasionally will watch a few minutes of tv here and there; but honestly, I would rather be doing something than sitting in front of a TV.
Six things I could never do without
My daughter, oxygen, my job, gravity, water, etc
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything, the wheels are always turning.
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends, I'm kind of over the whole go out to a club and drink until I'm in liver failure, but I do like to go out every now and then.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am an absolutely terrible dancer.
You should message me if
Honestly right now I'm looking to meet new people and see where it goes from there. I'm not really expecting a life-long relationship from a free dating site but, hey, crazier things have happened, and I suppose that is kind of the end goal right? I will say that you SHOULDN'T message me if you have an issue with my being a single parent. I'm not looking for someone to be a mother to my child, she already has one, but my daughter is a major part of my life, she is my absolute world. So if you don't like the concept of a guy with a kid, you might want to move on. I'm also not all that interested in someone that can't hold a conversation. I'm also not interested in drama or in someone that needs to be at a club 7 nights a week.
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