40Sterling, United States
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My self-summary
A Bold explorer of life's tastes and Flavors, who will spend the night out dancing till the sunrises and smile at the face of new work week .. or is the grimace for the the sun has risen ... either way , I enjoy life , savor every moment sweet and bitter...and I'll get up do it, but I'm very busy .My career is got A hold on me , but I share this amazing thing called life with so many great people , for a little time or as long we are here . I stopped trying to plan for certain things and am exploring my poly nature . you can plan the perfect picnic but you can't predict the weather , but then if it rains on my parade , ill just dance in it .

I am determined, compassionate, silly and tattooed up.
What I’m doing with my life
bouncing around the world providing Audio visual needs those in technical need. Teaching ballroom dance,occasionally working construction and welding,/.I enjoy taking dance classes with my friends to continue my education. , I want to travel more but who doesn't , I just spent 2 weeks in Argentina taking tango lessons and immersing my self in culture and music .2 years ago I returned from a holiday in Amsterdam and Germany where I followed one of my favorite bands on the road with a best friend .. but alas my passport needs more stamps. I wish to sample the tastes , languages ,cultures and dances from around the world . That is a lot of my time ...
I’m really good at
drumming , dancing and cooking singing , fire performing .....listening , not being bored , there's always something I can be doing or getting better at
The first things people usually notice about me
My buoyant personality , I tend to bounce right into things.My passion for what I do .
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
my music collection is eclectic... every thing from aerosmith to the cure , classic rock , dead can dance , if it has a beat I'll listen to it , strauss a little bramhms, then a little hip hop or country .....what ever mood I'm in . I always love to dance , I'm a decent cook, my favorites is italian but a close second , oriental, and southern cooking . Or if I'm curious I love to try out a new restaurant with friends . and as far as movies, to many to name , but godfather / fight club/matrix 1 , I like thought provoking and interesting ,Monty Python , I can't stand stupid funny,

My reading selection Is varied I my collection of How to and for dummies and astounding amount of cook books,but I enjoy the works of Neil Gaiman , Terry Pratchett, Goerge Martin ,and on occasion dabble in physics and spirituality
Six things I could never do without
music , dance, food ,[my guitar] I'm not great yet , but I do love it , friends, loves
I spend a lot of time thinking about
things I need to do, things I should be doing , the state of the world , and my role in it .My mind wonders as much as my attention . But I do have goals ,and plans . I just have to ask my self why sometimes . What are my motivations, the weirdness of social norms , pleasing others . the mental programing from religion , parents ,and the stuff we react to , sometimes the left over baggage gets real heavy . How not to hang on to it .

side note :for those of you that need a more traditional relationship. I am probably not the right person for you . Much like dance partners you don't just dance with one person your whole life .

When it comes to dating, I don't want monogamy. Its not for every body , I feel if you can love more than one person in your life why shouldn't you . why do you have let go of all the people that you ever loved . Do you have more than one friend, I do , ,but I ultimately would like to have a main partner that I can share my life with, but with the understanding that they would not be my sole partner. I want the stability ,and richness of life that comes from having one primary relationship, but I also desire the variety that multiple lovers bring (this does not mean I am looking to hook up). This also would allow you to have your needs met in a similar nature. I feel strongly that monogamy breeds jealousy as well as encourages a sense of perceived ownership over the other person involved. I really can't abide jealousy.
On a typical Friday night I am
out dancing, getting my groove on , checking out a live show, or ordering a pizza ,and geeking out on video games or movies.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I was a trouble maker in my early 20's
You should message me if
You just want to chat and have intelligent conversation ... If your Half sane , Or Whole sane, and 2%OR skim is fine two. You enjoy bouts of sillyness, adventures, you like roller coasters, pillow fights , don't mind being tickled , or horsing around , will go and play in the rain some time, don't mind climbing a tree or a mountain, need a good friend to talk to ,you like nice long kisses , that make you forget what time it is .. just a few reasons to message me
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