Also worth noting: I'm as elusive as I am considerate and perceptive-- to a genuine fault. You'll lose interest quickly if you aren't serious to a fault, too. (If this resonates, you'll likely understand that I don't mean humorless; an understated, quirky sense of humor is especially hard to resist)
maybe my reserve, and my smile-- referred to once as a "mona lisa smile" because it can be inscrutable. also, i seem really "nice"/"sweet" or whatever.
what they don't notice, but bears mentioning, is that i'm not in perfect 20-something health. nothing dire; i just don't brim over with youthful energy and resilience all the time. those who find it a turn-off are invited to move on.
not a fancy cinephile. i enjoy good quality horror, sci-fi, kiddie, and anime films/cartoons. these aren't exclusive favorites, but it feels natural to mention pinky & the brain and david cronenberg in the same breath. so i did.
as for music-- industrial, dark wave, bach, beethoven... anything lovely, arresting, and a bit moody or dissonant. but not quite shostakovich all the time.