I am moderately highly sensitive by psychologist Elaine Aron’s definition of high sensitivity. Go to hsperson dot com and take the self test to find out your score. I get along well with guys who have a degree of high sensitivity.
My “love languages” lean toward physical touch and words of affirmation. Go to 5lovelanguages dot com and take the quiz. Can you tell I’m into pop psychology stuff?! Actually, it’s all based on good science and I’ve found this stuff useful for understanding myself and the kinds of guys I’m attracted to.
If I was just looking for sex I’d be on a different site but, sex is pretty important to me so, you might as well know that I’m a versatile top who loves to make out and wants to have a robust sex life with my partner. Vanilla is nice and my goal is to be making love, but kink is great too, so hopefully you are adventurous. I can be quite romantic, silly, sweet and goofy.
I’m not a jock by any means but I do like to stay physically active, go to the gym, hike and ride my bike. Would like to find someone who likes to hike.
Cant’ believe I’ve gotten this far and haven’t mentioned thrift shops. A perfect day for me would be a drive to the San Gabriel foothills for a hike, dim sum lunch in San Gabriel Valley and a stop at a thrift shop.
I’m very frugal and love deals and sales.
Soul music, disco, vintage jazz singers, kooky easy listening. I have a huge collection of vinyl records. I used to have a regular DJ gig at a hip hotel. I like luxuriamusic.com
By shows, I suppose okcupid means TV. I don't own a TV. If I did I would watch Antiques Roadshow and Hoarders. I listen to radio shows. I like "On the Media" on NPR and Democracy Now on Pacifica. I listen to the news on NPR every morning. But I can't stand that show RadioLab.
Don't see too many movies but I do like some foreign films and vintage films. Especially like Japanese films (anything by Nagisa Oshima), early Altman films, British comedies. I like to go to Goethe House to see films because it's near me, cheap and they show interesting foreign films in a small theater. I can be a little agoraphobic when it comes to big, crowded theaters.
Food: Chinese (especially in San Gabriel Valley), Japanese, Canter's, Musso and Franks, healthy food. The ambiance of a restaurant is as interesting and as important as the food. At home I cook all kinds of things but not much meat. Some, but not much. I make a batch of vegetable juice pretty often. I eat/drink kefir every day. Food is pretty important to me and it would be nice to find someone who is broadminded and adventurous about food.
I'll answer this though, with a desert island discs list (will add albums one by one as I think of them):
Lonette McKee: Words and Music
Family Fodder: Greatest Hits
Nina Hagen: NunsexMonkrock
Dory Previn: Mythical Kings and Iguanas
Pretenders: first album
You are a gardener, scientist, health care worker, artist, or in some other “right living” career. You return calls, email or text within 24 hours.
You are affectionate, sweet, friendly and polite.
You are financially prudent/not in debt, or at least not too much debt.