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My self-summary
I am a work in progress. The changes that look big on the outside are often little shifts on the inside and vice versa.

I live in the intersection of science and spirituality, gourmet and gaming, activity and apathy.

Be direct and honest with me and you'll win my trust, probably more. I am spiritual, but not religious. Mostly I've been learning on the Toltec path, but I have been exploring Kunlun Nei Gung, Shamanism, Reiki, and making it up as I go along.

I am polyamorous, and happy sharing with others, just as long as they're happy sharing me. I have been with Long_Live_Life_ for over 3 years now, and I'm open to dating others as well. I dislike angst and drama, and though I deal with it fairly well, I'd prefer that I didn't have to put up with it. I do my best to be honest, and communicate effectively.

I am honest, meticulous, and humorous.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now I am working in tech to pay the bills, using my Reiki Master certification occasionally, gaming, and spending time with my favorite people. On the personal growth front, I am working on being less negative, seeking those things my brain tries to hide, and expanding my senses and control when it comes to my Qi/energy and the energy in the world around me. Tai Chi, Kunlun Nei Gung, Reiki, Aphrodite Temple, Toltec work, and a Deeksha session have all helped.
I’m really good at
I'm really good at doing a variety of accents and voices, teaching things in a way that anybody can understand, and being the rock in the storm when the rest of the world around me is freaking out. I am awesome at Twister. I am good at promoting my friends and figuring out which friend can help which other friend with that thing they do so well.

I am exceptionally good at hugging! If you give good hugs, I challenge you to a Hug Battle! (Hint: Everybody wins!)

You know those people that are so comfortable to be around that without realizing it you start telling them your problems or dark secrets that you feel the need to unburden? That happens to me pretty often, even with people that tell me they are the usually the one doing the listening.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm told the first things people notice about me are my sexy voice doing a bunch of different accents, and my friendly demeanor. I am well known in some circles for my exceptional hugs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Many years ago I was a voracious reader, and I plowed through the entire Sci-Fi section of the local public library including Ender's Game, Stranger in a Strange Land, and Starship Troopers. These days don't really feel like I have the luxury to get lost in a book, so I read lots of articles about science, technology, and culture. I am most amused and sometimes horrified reading about things that are on the path to reaching the future outlined by Cyberpunk 2020, except for the phones, we're way ahead there. I will sometimes pick up a book about something I want to learn.

I really enjoy watching movies for the humor, escapism, and to give my imagination something to play with. My favorites are movies I can watch over and over and not get bored with them. The Gods Must Be Crazy, Star Wars, and Serenity are good examples, though when I'd point somebody at my shelf of movies to pick something they usually choose Gattica. You'll know I'm in a relationship for the long haul when we start watching a TV series together like Babylon 5, 3rd Rock from the Sun, Deep Space 9, Veronica Mars, Farscape, or Firefly.

I really love food! I do maintain reasonable eating habits, but I treat food like an adventure! Sushi, Pho, and BBQ are constant favorites, but I like to try new things. I enjoy cooking, and though I often don't follow the recipes exactly I will use them for guidance and come up with something tasty and original. If you ask me what I made, it won't have a name, but I might tell you what influenced it. A chef once told me I'd be great in a test kitchen, but my knife skills are too slow for a production kitchen.

I have discontinued my "Daily Sushi or Guacamole Diet" to get my HDLs back up where they should be, but still pick those options more often than not when available.

My favorite games are tabletop RPG's like Mage or Shadowrun, though I really don't like D&D. My favorite video games are sci-fi shooter/RPG's like Mass Effect or Fallout, and I enjoy some construction games like Space Engineers and Reassembly.
Six things I could never do without
Honestly, as long as I can manage food and shelter, I can get along without everything else, though I'll be unhappy about it. If I want to be happy, on the other hand...

Daily Chocolate - I might be addicted, but I don't binge. I usually have a piece from The Chocolate Stash I keep at home in the morning. I usually have good quality chocolate in there like the milk chocolate with lemon and ginger that I had this morning.

Drive-by huggings - I don't get to do it often, but rather than just posting on Facebook or somesuch "*hugs*" when somebody has a rough day, I like to drive up, knock, give them a hug, and leave.

Pixels to slaughter - That is, a category of computer games I use for stress relief where I can just get in there and blow stuff up for a little while instead of buying a rifle and picking a tower...

Naked time - That doesn't necessarily mean sex, but if I had to wear clothes all day and PJs at night I'd get cranky.

Opportunities to break the rules a little here and there. Thus Sayeth Item Number Five, and Thus It Is Written.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, polyamoury, computer games and role-playing games, self improvement, and where my energy is going.

What is the plan? Between the hours of 6pm and 11pm there is no plan! Just put it out there and see where it goes. There could be cookies, sex, games, a class, meditation, snuggling, walking, adventure driving, or some other thing I haven't thought of. Then a shower, and bed. Maybe play a little on the XBox to relax before sleep. Quiet the mind, stop thinking about anything, and listen to what comes next! Woosh!
On a typical Friday night I am
Staying up later than usual.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This is a tough one for me since I don't consider much of my life private, and what I do consider private, I don't tell anybody at all.

Well, here's a few tidbits... I spend as much of my time at home as possible naked. I pick up pennies that I find, regardless of which side faces up. I like to shower with whomever I sleep with, each bathing the other. I do not emote well over the phone, and I don't know why.
You should message me if
... you are polyamorous or poly-curious ... you live or plan to live near Austin, TX.

... your ideal date plan looks like, "Between the hours of 6pm and 11pm there will be randomness, and food."

Also, bonus points if you are forging your own spiritual path, working with magick, enjoy gaming, or are a snuggling heat sink.
The two of us