I am a warm, geeky, kinky, ethically poly, ethically slutty, adventurous, loving, tender, flirtatious, with a big heart and a no-nonsense attitude.
Very few things are sacred. The only way not to be ashamed or afraid is to drag your fears and shames kicking and screaming into the light and laugh at them.
An extrovert by nature, outgoing by choice. ENFP
*Climbing at Planet Granite and yoga in an effort to be prouder and more comfortable in my body.
*cycling. It saves gas money, lessens the amount of garbage I leave in the atmosphere, and I find it meditative and calming as opposed to driving which I find stressful unless I have company.
*Avid gamer as long as I can game with live people in the same room. I attend a board game night with friends on Thursday nights
*Practicing on my new stilts
*I model for painting/drawing classes and adult films (when possible). I am an exhibitionist when the opportunity presents itself and I look at it like exposure therapy for my negative body image issues
TV: The Muppet Show, Jessic Jones, Misfits, Pushing Daisies, Firefly, Red Dwarf, Sense8, Daredevil, STTNG, Farscape, iZombie, various Anime
Movies: A Scanner Darkly, Strange Days, Brick, Tron, Rifftrax of various films, Plan 9 from Outer Space, Rocky Horror, old Star Wars, old kung-fu movies, Repo: The Genetic Opera, Clue, The Devil's Carnival, The Zero Theorem, Miyazaki Films
Music: Icon of Coil, Bad Religion, Apocalyptica, Garbage, Lords of Acid, Lacuna Coil, Save Ferris, Bif Naked, Pennywise, Rise Against, PostModern Jukebox, Walk off the Earth, Emilie Autumn, etc., etc. A song that will always stick with me is 'Knock Me Out' by Linda Perry and Grace Slick. Two of the most impressive women in popular music of their respective generations together on a song that just makes me ache
Food: Simple chinese dishes, Afghan, Greek, etc. For me the company is more important than the food. Although finding a calm center at one of my favorite little taverns with a shepherd's pie is a wonderful thing...
Wanting to have partners who are more active than me while still allowing me to keep up with them.
What I want to study if I go back to a traditional college education.
If I'll ever find an art form I'm passionate enough about to totally and utterly dedicate myself to
Going to the Citadel if possible, hooking up a bad-movie night with my friends, talking, reading, going to a munch, working, DJing (if I can get a gig), prepping for Burning Man, or just relaxing at home with my kitty laying across my stomach
I'm kinda in love with bicycling (especially at night) I find it meditative and fun...
I get pangs of paternal energy which I resolve by being a caring friend and partner (or doting on my pets)
I hate that this site thinks I'm less love-driven when I want to be loved and cared for even in my most casual of relationships...
You're brave enough to make the first move.
You're weird, geeky, flirty, and fun! :)
You're okay dating an ethically poly guy.
You're reasonably independent.
You're big on self-improvement.