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My self-summary
Andro genderqueer twinky dyke

Prone to episodes of dancing in grocery stores

Pronouns they/them or he/him

Lover of words and loving with words.

Embodiment of various midtown queer clichés- ie guitar player, spoken word artist, American Spirit smoker, IPA drinker, etc.


Communication addict with alternative lifestyle and alternative lifestyle haircut to match.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a Master's MFT program en route to practicing sex therapy with a strong focus on the unique struggles of queer individuals, qpoc, kink and BDSM culture, and trauma informed clinical practice. You can find me all over the grid, performing spoken word, participating in some community event, or just gallivanting around.
I’m really good at
Dog charming
Interpretive street dancing
Whistling really, really loudly
Drunk cooking
Making fun of myself
The first things people usually notice about me
My haircut, probably
How fucking flamboyant I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Safran Foer, Augusten Burroughs, Natsuo Kirino, Janet Fitch, Autostraddle ;)

creepy synthesizer

The Knife, Wild Nothing, Alvvays, DANIEL CAESAR OHMYGODDD, The Radio Dept, Fever Ray, Angel Olsen (GAH), Shiina Ringo, Bonobo, Snowmine, Trailer Trash Tracys, Conor Oberst, SOAK, a lottt of 90's and early 2000's rnb, Prefuse 73, Santogold, T&S, Daughter
Six things I could never do without
Journal + Pen + Guitar
Queerfam buddies and generally rad humans
Open communication
Hot butches and masculine of center or andro queers
My dog Simon who lives with my mom <3
... and a decent haircut
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why the heck my bearded dragon won't eat the bugs I give him but then runs around my house "hunting" for food.
What various individuals might be like in bed
Interpersonal patterns
What Andrea Gibson might be doing at this exact moment
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting drunk and crying about gender.
Just kidding. I don't cry about it much anymore.

I'm probably singing karaoke somewhere on the grid. Or at some specified event/fundraiser/gathering.
You should message me if
You want to meet in person at some point.
You like dogs.
You are polyamorous or at least polyam-literate/friendly
You like kink
You are aware of a number of social justice issues and are passionate about them.
You're really queer.
You hate the patriarchy
You hate capitalism
You want to discuss Conor Oberst lyrics with me.
Or any lyrics with me!
You want to play word games on paper.
Or draw pictures.
The two of us