25 Sacramento, United States
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My self-summary
I like smiling at strangers and dancing in grocery stores. I also like vocabulary and bad jokes.
What I’m doing with my life
Being hella queer and polyamorous and artsy and kinky and folding laundry and being relatively opinionated about social issues

Starting grad school for marriage and family therapy with the eventual goal of becoming a licensed sex therapist.

You can find me all over the grid performing songs or poetry, participating in some community event, or just gallivanting around :D
I’m really good at
Dog charming
Music making
Discussions about sexology
Last minute essay writing
Drunk cooking
Discussions about queer theory
Interpretive street dancing
Word things
Discussions about kink and power exchange
Beer drinking
Making fun of myself
Languages- but I'm getting rusty and always need practice so let's have a language partyyy
The first things people usually notice about me
My willingness to make a fool of myself
My tattoos
My vocabulary
How fucking flamboyant I am
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There are so very many, but lately:

Augusten Burroughs, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Safran Foer, Natsuo Kirino, Dennis Cooper, Janet Fitch, Margaret Atwood

I Heart Huckabees, Martyrs, Smoke Signals, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Audition

I binge watch SVU and pretend to be Dr. Huang

The Knife, Wild Nothing, St. Lucia, The Radio Dept, Aether, Oberst, Fever Ray, Bonobo, Beach House, Prefuse 73, Deerhoof, lots of jazzy lounge instrumental jams with beats, 90's rnb jamz

All of the food.
The six things I could never do without
Journal + Pen
Buddies and generally rad humans
Open communication
My dog Simon who lives with my mom <3
... and a decent haircut

*honorable mention to Autostraddle.com
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Intersectional feminism.
"Wait... was that culturally appropriative? HMM."
New songs and poems I am writing, and my giant backlog of unrecorded material.
If people who work at food places resent when I order food to go but then end up eating all of it inside.
What various individuals might be like in bed.
Different vitamins and herbs and their health properties.
Cute people.
Why the heck my bearded dragon won't eat the bugs I give him but then runs around my house "hunting" for food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Getting drunk and crying about gender.

Just kidding. I don't cry about it much anymore.
You should message me if
-You want to meet in person at some point.
-You like dogs.
-You like kink
-You are aware of a number of social justice issues and are passionate about them.
-You're really queer.
-And really visibly queer, possibly on the more masculine end of the spectrum or the middle and maybe get mistaken for a boy sometimes but still are attracted to faily androgynous people or don't have a huge preference on a partner's gender presentation but preferrably the prior goddammit why do so many hot queers only like femmes asjgdgfhkxgs anyhow
-You want to discuss Conor Oberst lyrics with me.
-Or my lyrics with me...
-You want to play word games on paper with me.
-Or draw pictures.