30Loveland, United States
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My self-summary
"I suppose you can say I'm a "collector" of sorts. As I like to acquire many things of worth. Some of the things I have are valuable and some are not. They are all loved but not all can be owned. Some of the things I have are unique others are drab. Some of them are rare and others are simply sought after. None of which are unobtainable."

Who am I? It's a bigger question than most like to admit let alone discuss. Something some of us spend our whole lives trying to discover. I suppose you could say I'm anything but "run of the mill." I appreciate board knowledge, so it's hard for me to not find an interest in anything. However such a thing comes with a price. I like to challenge "ways of thinking" even when it comes to my own. First impressions matter very little to me and who you are over time is what will amaze me. It's up to you whether it will be good or bad... I am a homebody, if that annoys you, sorry. I'm unorthodox, I don't believe in political correctness when we're just joking around. But a closed mind is the most unattractive thing a woman can have... I can go on for a while but I assure you, no gentlemen can be done justice from a brief summary. ;)
What I’m doing with my life
Saving for a trip to any of my favorite destinations. France, Germany, Russia, Japan, Ireland, or Australia... So hard to choose maybe if I had help choosing... ;)

Nurturing a relationship that I've recently gotten into. I don't want to sound spiteful but one that I have no thanks to the Okcupid community. If I could offer any advice I would say, be open-minded. Give people a chance and be more courteous. I've written so many messages. Always giving the respect and thoughtfulness a woman deserves and 90% of the time it's met by silence. Maybe I'm not what you're looking for, maybe I was but you'd never know if you set the plane on fire before it got off the ground. So when the next guy actually takes the time to write you something, give him a chance. And pay your "price of admission" (look it up on youtube). Good luck to you, I hope you find the love of your life and that I never have to come back lol
I’m really good at
Cooking bacon like a boss


I'm often told I'm great with animals

Children stick to me like glue. I never slayed my inner child

Witty sarcasm... so I've been told.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm tall, dark, and handsome.

Most likely the fact that I don't use ebonics? I'm often told that if you talk to me on the phone you'd never know I'm black.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Hurricane Carter, Shock Doctrine and that's about it for books.

Snatch, Boondock Saints, Man on Fire, Monsters Inc., Princess Bride, Toy Story, V for Vendetta, Black Hawk Down, Saving Private Ryan, No Country for Old Men, Finding Forrester, 16 Blocks, 50 First Dates, Something About Mary, Scary Movie 2, Spy Hard, Die Hard, did I say V for Vendetta?

As for tv shows: history or discovery channel and Band of Brothers, Black Dynamite, Sealab 2021, Archer, and a few others

I love all types of music (mostly independent hip hop): Jack Johnson, Beatles, Immortal Technique, Incubus, RHCP, Sublime, Hans Zimmer, Ratatat, Martin Odonnel, Wu-Tang, Fort Minor, System of a Down, POD, Rage Against the Machines, Linkin Park, High and Mighty, Sleep, Dead Prez, Little People, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, Master Ace, Nas, Cunnin Lyguists, Marlyn Mansion, RJD2, Rob Zombie, Deltron 3030, Gorillaz, Beta to the Max and so much more

As for food: anything Italian or German
Six things I could never do without
1. Family- It's not about who's blood you carry, it's about who you love and who loves you back.
2. Hope- It's always darkest before dawn. As long as you have hope the sun will rise.
3. Left 4 Dead- Who doesn't enjoy a good apocalypse?
4. Love- Not being able to connect or have passion for something, I believe limits the potential of who we are.
5. Food- Man, I eat out too much, lol.
6. Good fortune- While having skill is an important value, sometimes a little luck is required to beat the odds.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Why there are no synonyms or antonyms for the word, thesaurus...
On a typical Friday night I am
I'm impulsive sometimes, so it's hard to say. Most days I'm working so I'm likely to remain home after the long ones. Longest stretch I've had this year without a day off was 22 days.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book so there's nothing private. However here are some embarrassing things about me.

-I like the color purple (not the movie)
-I think oriental children all have a look of bewilderment
-My nickname is Dante Pomper-Stomper
-I sometimes forget how to spell "what"
-Intimated by women
-I once forgot I had apoxy all over my hand and ran it through my hair. You can figure out the rest of the story...
You should message me if
...if you took the time to read anything in my journal.

...if you hate hippsters, trust fund babies and anyone else who supports terrorism.

...if you think they should stop remaking old kids shows into movies.

...if Bill Gates has too much money.

...if you'd have Jack Johnson's babies (cause I would).

...if man crushes don't bother you.

...if you can not take any of this seriously

...if you like to play mini-golf

...if you can bench press 250lbs.

...if American idol doesn't give you a hard on

...if Kenny Blankenship is your idol

Not all are required but feel free to converse even if you feel that none of these things fit your descrption. I understand no one's perfect and should be accepted for who they are. Or your intention is to meet perspective great people, it's always nice to meet great people lol.

Honestly I'm just looking for someone that has quality values. I don't think it's a lot to ask but these days I wonder. I'm in no rush but someone that is willing to put effort in would be nice too. Between those two I feel like I'm dead in the water but I don't settle. Maybe compromise but never settle lol. So I hope to hear from you, theoretical person that I may or may not meet! :)
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