36Seattle, United States
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My self-summary
Very very busy. Polyamorously married and happily non-monogamous. Lover of words and tacos and geekery.

I don't have much time for dating, but happy hour companionship is always appreciated.

Long ago I had many more words in this space. Simplification is life.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a professional coffee cheerleader. Between work and the nonprofit community building group I help run, most of my life is spent in this realm.

Once or twice a week I sit at a table with good friends, drink shitty beer and pretend to be someone else. Usually a Star Wars character. (We play Saga, if you're interested.)

I do a lot of bar trivia.

I eat a lot. I am approximately 70% taco.

I drink whiskey, beer and wine occasionally. OK slightly more than occasionally. But whiskey, beer, and wine is delicious.

I try to spend at least a little of every day with someone I care about.
I’m really good at

Petting cats. And dogs. They love me.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall. Skinny. Curly hair. Good eye contact. Nice smile.

People say I'm pretty weird. But I take that to mean pretty. And weird.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Lots of books. Many movies, a few shows, a bunch of music, and all the food.
Six things I could never do without
my cats Pepper
My lady wife person
decent whiskey

This may not be in order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
New rpg games. Work. What should I eat for dinner? What wine will go with my dinner? Should I buy this wine for work? If I work early today can I go out with someone this afternoon?
On a typical Friday night I am
Friday nights are drink shitty beer and play RPG games night. Lots of friends, lots of Rainier.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Besides the fact I'm poly and married?
You should message me if
Let's play Scrabble. Or do pub trivia.

Let's go taste some sandwiches!

I need to start exercising somehow. I bought a car last July and haven't gained weight, but have gotten softer. Which is weird for me.

You want to be my writing partner. I need some encouragement and deadlines.

Or you want to take me hiking or some other outdoorsy thing! I'm determined to finally take advantage of the nature factory we call the PNW. I don't have any of the stuff. But I really want to go. So take me with you!

Just write me! Chances are, if I've looked at your profile more than once either 1. You updated something and I want to see or 2. I like you and am planning to write eventually but haven't gotten there yet. I send very few messages. So just write me and I'll write back.
The two of us