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My self-summary
i find this little difficult ... so perhaps look below and you might find my answers interesting to you ...
What I’m doing with my life
enjoying it ... engaged in it ... grateful for it
I’m really good at
being a caring supporting friend ... being a present audience ... turning an ordinary space into one of beauty ... laughing at my shortcomings ... (and yours if you don't mind) ... telling my stories of the many adventures from my rather unorthodox life , making yummy meals for myself, my friends ... and also for my sweet dog.
The first things people usually notice about me
i wonder ....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
it changes, but a few from the past ... nabokov's lolita, merwyn peake's gormenghast, kundera, mary oliver, neruda, david white, klima, rumi, but usually the one i am reading at the moment.
music i love? amongst many ... beatles of course, scriabin, the stones, karina denike singing anything, jj cale, dylan, billie holiday, mozart, the band, rachmaninoff, nick drake, the grateful dead, dire straights, the staple singers, bb king, chopin, astrud gilbeto, maria callas's, toots and the maytals, staple singers and on and on; i listen to music a lot
i don't have a tv ...but have watched and loved braking bad!...kustorica, kurosawa, bergman, fellini, cohen brothers ... just a few that come to mind - man on wire, cherry blossoms, when we were kings ... last waltz

some eat to live ... i live to eat ... and i can ...
anything fresh, ethnic, complex, simple
Six things I could never do without
my grown children
great laughs ...
ocean nearby
I spend a lot of time thinking about
asking my self what really matters in my life? narrowing it down to that ... next adventure far from home - or simple adventures right here on my doorstep .... spending time with my children that are scattered in the world ... my cute granddaughter in south of france ... ... lost keys, damn it .. a tiny little house on wheels ... resting in the woods and/or by the ocean...
On a typical Friday night I am
there is no day that's typical, and i hope there never will be
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
not here
You should message me if
you are not afraid to make a fool of yourself ... you are sincere ... you are comfortable with yourself ... you like to get the giggles till you cry ... you know what it's like to have your heart broken .... you really enjoy children ... you are passionate about something in your life ...
The two of us