I am a very driven with real life goals, I'm very optimistic and looking forward to the future where the glass is always half full. Life comes with many adventures, so why not just enjoy the ride.
As far as what I'm looking for, dating is pretty much where anything has to start... if there's tons of chemistry and compatibility then I'm open to a long lasting relationship. I'm not looking for someone to take care of me, I work M-F and sometimes on weekends. I have my own businesses, I was raised that a man is suppose to take care of himself and his family.
I really like a women who knows what she wants and is not afraid to say or show it! It would be nice if you have some goals in life, a career. What I find sexy is a lady who has CONFIDENCE.
These deal breakers are to the females that act this way. It is not saying all women act this way but if you are acting this way, look some where else.
Instant Deal breakers:
...if you have kids and have drama with your kids dad, I’m not interested
...if you have not moved on from your last relationship please move on from this page
...I don’t have any drug or alcohol problems...if you do, well I’m sure you get it by now
...if you're on a dating site without a picture of yourself, makes me think your up to something, no spies please
...if you would rather message or txt for a long time and never meet, I like having real friends and not cyber ones
...I don't believe I have to say this but, if you looking for someone to be a finance donator, go apply for a loan.
...I hate even say this too, but it's keeps coming up. I date all races. My family is very mixed, my dad (Brazilian) and my mom (Sicilian) so if you can't handle dating a man of color because your worried about what people may say or you don't like a certain race of people, Let's not waste each other's time, because 9 out of 10 their probably in my family. Let me add this to the above statement, if you don't like a certain race of people then we will not get along. I have a very mixed family and friends, I love them all equally.
...I live in Midtown section of Houston, so I prefer to date people inside the loop.
Ladies, I'm looking for that one special lady in my life. I need a lady who can laugh at herself (and me), have great OPEN conversation and sit back and just enjoy each other company no matter what we are doing.
Sorry if this rules many out, but I'd rather get one message from someone I'm interested in than 100 messages from people I'm not.
My Daughter (my heart and one of my great accomplishments)
Music (can't live without it)
My iPhone (staying organized)
My True Friends