paulybspa
52 Ballston Spa, United States
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My self-summary
A gentleman, smart, caring, and easy-going. I'm not a follower.

I'm affectionate and playful when I'm with a woman whose company I enjoy.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a commercial banker. I make loans to large companies so that they can grow and prosper.

I'm taking time now to remember and do the things that I like to do, rather than putting myself last.

I'm trying to simplify my life. Taking time to enjoy the little things.
I’m really good at
While I haven't played in quite a while, I have a nice backhand tennis shot.

Writing. I like to write.

Kissing. It's all about the kiss.

Getting around NYC. I went to college in Manhattan and love to visit there when I can. The real NYC is in the neighborhoods and I enjoy exploring the museums.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes. My style. My calm way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
- Godfather and Godfather II. North by Northwest. Annie Hall. Moonstruck.
- Lately, I like new, alternative music, WEQX, occasional jazz from the 50s and 60s, Frank Sinatra.
- Cooking Channel, Travel Channel, Mad Men, Anthony Bourdain, CBS Sunday Morning
- Pizza, manicotti, lasagna, cannoli. Bread of all kinds. Chocolate ice cream. Flavored seltzers. Milk. French fries. Olives. Mashed potatoes. Filet mignon, all kinds of cheese, breakfast
- I'm more of a newspaper guy. Like to read about arts/leisure, current events, foreign affairs.
The six things I could never do without
- My family
- My old fashion coffee pot
- My little notepad that I carry everywhere so that I remember the little things that pop into my head.
- My Sunday New York Times subscription
- Italian food
- Challenging work
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I just take each day as it comes. I have so many interests that whatever pops into my head that day, I go with that flow - that could be art, design, movies, work issues, what kinds of meals I'm going to make, ways to help my two sons
On a typical Friday night I am
This depends on the type of week I have had. You might find me taking a walk to the nearby pizzeria or coffee shop to grab a little bite and chat with the staff and local people. Or visiting a bookstore or nice clothing store.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't like spiders.
You should message me if
You are confident. You are strong and know who you are. You are smart. It's all about the connection.
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