45San Francisco, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I was born and raised in NYC and have lived in SF since 2000. My family is from southern Italy and I identify very strongly with my heritage.

I'm a good guy. Loyal, caring, thoughtful, civic/social justice minded. I've a playful and spicy side as well.

I'm looking for a meaningful connection with someone who is grounded, engaging and engaged with the world around him. I seek someone who, while focused, is funny and able to have fun. I believe very strongly that the privilege one has comes with a responsibility to contribute to the community in which one lives. I have a full life and am looking for someone who can appreciate that. I make it a priority to be present for those who mean a lot to me. Shall we dance?
What I’m doing with my life
I work in public health and love the work that I consider myself lucky to do each and every day. My job is demanding but I make sure to dedicate time and attention to my life beyond my career. I stay active after hours: volunteering, pilates/gym, dancing, hiking, travelling, spending time with friends.
I’m really good at
Listening, eating, dancing, making another person feel heard and valued, coming up with any and all excuses to procrastinate, telling it like it is.
The first things people usually notice about me
My blue salt and pepper attentiveness.
Six things I could never do without
sun (why do I live in SF?!)
bodies of water
good food/wine
quiet time
friends & family
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how to inspire and support others to live their life to the fullest and realize their value and potential
On a typical Friday night I am
Meeting friends for a drink, a meal, an art opening. I am just as likely to go home and spend time with my cat unwinding from the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
As outgoing as I am, I am a very private person.
You should message me if
You like my profile, you believe in social justice, you're looking for a long term relationship and especially if you love to cook and dance (preferred not required).
The two of us