I will ony rate someone with a 3, 4, or a 5. I will never rate someone with a "1" or a "2" - its rude and just not fair or nice - not knowing you in person to experience your kindness.
For a first meet, I prefer to keep it casual. I don't pay for online dating sites, see p o f . Smile. I think going for a coke or coffee would be fine. Then, maybe you would like to take a walk on the beach or sit at a table and watch the foaming waves for a very short period of time. Let's just get to know each other in an open mutual place to see if we want to meet a second time. No decisions on the spot. It would be up to you. I hope to meet you. Smile.
If you don't like something about me, share it - I love to make improvements :-)
I'm retired. I'm waiting to meet you.
what will you look like and will we like each other?