I can't see 'Likes' so unless you write I won't know you want to correspond. Lately okc doesn't tell me I have mail, so if you write, I apologize in advance that I might be a little slow to respond. I prefer e-mail to IM, at least at first.
It may appear I'm here when I'm not. I can forget to sign off, or my phone seems to keep me logged on even when I sign off. If you IM me and I don't respond, it's probably the same — either not at my computer or forgot to sign off or my IM is turned off or .. I am not a rude boy. If I see your IM but can't talk at that moment, I will respond to let you know. See? Not rude!
Please though.. Absolutely no 101-year-olds. OKCupid understands this, and I can't imagine you wouldn't too. Whoa, was that last sentence grammatically correct?