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My self-summary
Genuinely nice, funny, intelligent, laugh easily and often mostly at myself, kind of spacey at times, but when focused I have moments of pure genius, OK I lied about the genius part, actually every now and then I have an interesting thought, which I don't hesitate to share with anyone at anytime.
What I’m doing with my life
I really enjoy learning, like to experience new things and meet new people, read a lot to learn about people and places I may never have the chance to experience. I work and live in the city now and grew up in the near west suburbs.
I do want to find my niche. I know what I do well but making that work on a professionally satisfying level has been challenging. However, I have been willing to take chances.
I’m really good at
Better at some things than I thought I was and way worse in others. I tend to be very literal even when I know people are joking around. Can be quite funny and quite quick witted so it is a strange combination.
Very straight faced when joking around, I even confuse myself.

When I was young I could throw a baseball very hard and run pretty fast, like who cares but if I met you I would tell you stuff like that. Now I am skilled at funny Facebook comments.
The first things people usually notice about me
The rare times I walk backwards, it's my butt. Otherwise probably height, smile, my laugh. Going into Subway one day for lunch and the manager, wanted to know what was wrong since I wasn't laughing and joking, I think on second glance that is what people notice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Different mixes on Spotify that come off of some of my favorites. Neko Case, Elizabeth Cook, Ryan Adams, Lucinda Williams, Maxwell.
Books - Haruki Murakami, Richard Russo Doris Kearns Goodwin and I am always 9open to a good read.
Like Archer and Bojack Horseman(too Sad this season) got caught up in Jane the Virgin and Crazy Ex- Girlfriend oh what too much time will do to your TV habits.
Dark Chocolate, Ice Cream addict, trying hard to slow my intake. Like food, open minded to most anything.
Six things I could never do without
Chapstick, books, water, learning that I can do without a lot of things that I thought I couldn't do without. I enjoy my sleep and I can't imagine living without music now that I put some thought into it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think a lot about the state of the world, keep looking for my cause that will motivate me to spring into action and save the world. Cause might be making sure Donald Trump does not become President.

If everyones sex drive is higher than average than wouldn't that be the average?

Why I am such a knucklehead sometimes.
Why women waste time in their profiles saying they are not looking for a "hook up", knowing full well that it isn't going to stop any guy from contacting them and the chances they read it are like 1%. Please explain. No one explained yet. (One woman said she didn't know) Are women not reading profiles either?
On a typical Friday night I am
If I am in books, music, sports, movies and video games keep me busy. If I go out pretty much open to most things except very loud, crowded places actually like to be able to talk to the people I am with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well hey I admitted I was unemployed right now. That seems pretty private.
You should message me if
You are interested in meeting a nice, reasonably intelligent person, who can be pretty funny and you have some chapstick.
Probably my only real deal breakers are racists and zealots of any type.
We don't have to have everything in common but at least the ability to learn a little bit about the others interests.
Add to that empathy for others, when I read how some people answer some of the questions here, I wonder if they ever thought about anything from another's perspective.
The two of us