33 Boulder, United States
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My self-summary
I'm an educational consultant. The moments with my students are the best of my day. Of all the people in the world who know me well--and there are many--none know me better. I am self-actualized in their presence, aware of my good fortune to be in a more exclusive club than the one percenters: I am one of the very few who do exactly what they love most with their life.

I am a writer. I take two hours each day to build upon the tools I acquired at the MFA program in fiction at Sarah Lawrence College, where I was blessed to learn from some of my literary heroes. While I hope to be a smashing success someday, I firmly believe that art and commerce are at war. And so, I take my endeavor seriously in the sense that I produce art for art's sake, not for the sake of my building my ego, status, or bank account. The creative process is still sacred to me, and I hope that at the end of my journey, I will be able to say the same.

I am a musician, and I play out on the town frequently, though with a diminished passion from years ago. There are only so many hours in a day or week to which I can devote myself to an art form of waning importance to me. Still, I enjoy performing and collaborating with strong minds and skilled players, but more as a hobby than anything else.

I am a family man, in the sense that, over my twenty nine years, I have fallen repeatedly to the common folly of thinking that anything in life besides family will remain permanent. I am in regular contact with my home base. Though it is far from here, I hold it close in my thoughts.

I am a friend to many, but increasingly, I am searching for that one truest friend. Hence, I am here.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching, writing, playing, enjoying life as best I know how.
I’m really good at
admitting my own mistakes and growing from them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I honestly have no clue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Graham Greene, Haruki Murakami, Alice Munro, James Baldwin, John Fante, Brian Morton, Flannery O'Connor, Grace Paley, Roald Dahl...

Movies and TV: Woody Allen, Coen Brothers, Mad Men, Six Feet Under, Peep Show, Sopranos

Music: M. Ward, Raphael Saadiq, Wilco, Avett Brothers, Band of Horses, Beatles, Beck, The Devil Makes Three, Felice Brothers, Radiohead
The six things I could never do without
and the Yankees.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What my characters are thinking about as they move through the world I made for them.
On a typical Friday night I am
with close friends, letting loose from the long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a most open book. Just ask.
You should message me if
You have your life together and you aren't self-absorbed.