Recently I've been exploring my relationship to gender, as a cis-female who feels comfortable in her body but is totally stoked by the myriad of ways to exist beyond the gender binary. I'm exploring my identification of myself as queer (not just in my sexual tastes but the values I want to live my life by) and strive to further challenge myself to be an anti-racist advocate and feminist advocate.
I'm poly,and have a committed life partnership with someone who is not in Buffalo. I'm looking for relationships that are fairly casual but based on mutual respect.
Books: Just finished The Book Thief and bawled my effing eyes out. If On A Winter's Night a Traveler, East of Eden, Midnight's Children, Sex at Dawn, anything by Jonathan Letham, McSweeney's...etc! etc! etc! Just read The Sisters Brothers and loved it. I tend to get very engrossed in whatever I'm reading, and emerge dazed and confused at the end.
Movies: I'll admit, I know there are many good movies I should watch but haven't yet. I love Wayne's World, PCU, and Empire Records (what 90's girl doesn't?). Saturday mornings are the best when Jurassic Park is on. Alternatively, if you've seen F is for Fake and enjoyed it, message me.
Music: folky punky with an undercurrent of ska... in no particular order: the Pixies, the Breeders, Belle and Sebastian, the Beatles, the Cave Singers, Tallest Man on Earth, the Specials, A.C. Newman, Paul Simon, Led Zepplin, Neil Young...
Do NOT send me one liners...you're wasting your time and will get no response.