53Norristown, United States
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My self-summary
Update: January 2017 not looking for a lover or romantic relationship at this time. Open to friends or travel partners

I love deep or thought provoking discussion, travel and, connecting with people. I am incredibly affectionate and love to kiss. I love great food, animals ( I would have a cat and a dog if my current housemate didn't have allergies) walking, talking, music and travel.
I prefer unfiltered olive oils, unfiltered beers and unfiltered conversation.
I have great friends, lovers, and wonderful people I work with. But I keep my profile up because I am at a point in my life where I need to keep myself open to all amazing experiences that the world has to offer and who knows--is that you?
New favorite game: Cards Against Humanity
What I’m doing with my life
Update: in February 2015 I joined my brother in the family business. My father was a record producer and my brother has been a record producer for 30 years. I now manage our 3 record labels.
I am working on a few great projects. One of my projects involves increasing people's awareness about charities in a very innovative way.
I worked at Trader Joes for 13 years. I was a manager for 8 years. I am working at launching some very special projects. I am a talented writer but have not given myself the time to do it. I was a professional photographer at one time in a very niche field of sports photography, and I still love taking photos--mostly people and animals and performance.
I used to get accupuncture treatments at the Eastern School of Accupunture in Montclair NJ and am fascinated with the incredible discipline of accupuncture. I have always been drawn to the healing arts.
With the decision to end my relationship--I am ready to put my heart into those things that really make me feel whole, happy, and significant. It time to give back to the world in a big way--while giving to myself as well
I’m really good at
I am a communicator. I come from a background of honesty and warmth and feel blessed to be able to express myself.
I am an inventor with MANY great ideas that deserve the breath of life, and now I am giving the time necesary to expedite my ideas.
I like to give ( and recieve) great massages. I have a great sense of touch and love to make people feel good.
I'm a very creative cook and had an award winning food service for many years. I miss the restaurant biz!
I'm a talented poker player--I used to play in a free poker league and came in 17th in the country one season ( out of 90,000 players).
I'm a great kisser and lover!
I'm a great traveler and I rarely lose at scrabble or words with friends!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile and my ability to engage ( I have no fear of eye contact! ). I like to think people are imediately aware of my warmth, sincerity and spirit. I am socially fearless and love to have fun with people!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love reggae, folk, classic rock, blues, jazz singers and funny music. Aretha, Ella, Zappa, Dylan, Jah Levi, Bob Marley, Jon Hendricks, Mike Cross, Christine Lavin, Dave Bromberg, Arlo Guthrie, Donna the Buffalo, Stones, etc....
I must have morbid taste in television as I love Dexter, Two and a Half Men, Desperate Housewives, Criminal Minds and anything legal or justice oriented. Top Chef is my favorite of the cooking shows
Favorite movie is The Green Mile, Shawshank Redemption, Alladin (animated with Robin Williams ) Great Escape, Godfather, Good Fellas, Analyze This, Austin Powers movies, 50 First Dates. I actually love a good "chick flick". My favorite oldie book is Prince of Tides, Life and Times of Muhammad Ali by Thomas Hauser, The Man Who Mistook His Wife For a Hat, and most recently as I have learned a lot about adult ADD I have been fascinated by all books having to do with brain chemistry
I love sushi, Thai food, Indian food, most seafood. I haven't eaten beef or pork in 35 years. I love duck! I make a bad ass chocolate chip bread pudding!
I am an avid festival goer and always will be!
I am a beer snob and love great Belgians, microbrews, and quality beers.
Six things I could never do without
Great food
New experiences
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How people treat each other and societal trends. I like to notice the good in people and am frustrated by the selfishness and ruthlessness that is so prevalent today. But I never lose sight of the generosity and love and healing in the world. My day is made when I witness random acts of kindness!
This section could get very long since my brain almost never stops--a blessing and a curse!
On a typical Friday night I am
Driving for Uber or Lyft or checking out some live music for work or pleasure.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I have an erection lasting more than four hours the LAST person I'm calling is a doctor!
You should message me if
I am not every woman's cup of tea. That is for sure. I have a long distance girlfriend I have been dating for four years. I am totally honest with her about my refusal to be monogamous at this point in my life.
That is just where I am at at this point.
Caring for my aging mother and figuring out my new career have to be my priority.

I said casual sex was ok in my preferences--don't be turned off by that. I am a safe, realistic, faithful partner who deprived himself of intimacy for much too long by being faithful despite not being fulfilled. I am a generous, robust lover and I realize that I really need to share my sexuality with partners for whom intimacy is equally important-but I am not someone who is dishonest or unfaithful to whatever our arrangement is--I will not violate your expectations to fulfill mine. That's not necessary if you're clear and honest about expectations.
Contact me if you enjoy thought provoking or just plain provocative conversation ( and I don't mean phone sex). You want to meet--I'm not a pen pal kind of guy. You are honest and appreciate the same. You want fun and goodness in your life. You enjoy intimacy, passion, sex, pleasure, touch, mental stimulation.
You are not possessive or controlling.
The two of us