phire42
39 Largo, United States
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My self-summary
UPDATE: I've been cast as Gaston in Beauty and the Beast at the New Tampa Players in Tampa. I really want to start dating again. So if you are interested in meeting for a coffee or something let me know! I don't bite (Until the terms of said biting are negotiated with both parties in agreement.)

I'm currently obsessed with the musical Hamilton

I am the true Gemini...

I'm a little bit Country and a little bit Rock and Roll and a little bit Showtunes, and Folk as well. :-) I enjoy music and performing. I used to take guitar lessons, I sing in a chorus, I am also an amateur actor, singer, and dancer for local community theaters, and I'm ALWAYS a clown! I juggle, and play the recorder, and do magic tricks, and tell (bad) jokes. I am the master of the PUN!

I'm also a geek who works in a helpdesk, and designs websites, and who loves to go Geocaching. I like to techno-babble and occasionally watch a science fiction movie or franchise television show of which will remain nameless as I'm not THAT much of a geek!. I'm an avid reader. I consume copious quantities of literature (and some stuff that doesn't quite qualify)

I'm a New Age type too. I'm a Green Witch with Norse and Kabbalah leanings. I'm a Reiki healer and practitioner of magick. (With or without the K) I'm also the obligatory Harry Potter fan. I'm a member of Shining Wheel Pagan Chorus.

I am polyamorous and believe in responsible non-monogamy both when in or out of a relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm in a study phase of my life... starting to teach myself piano (lessons coming soon), I am reading acting books, I'm doing Personal Power 2 by Tony Robbins an I just got a gym membership. I've lost 30 lbs over the last 6 months and am looking to lose some more. Come be my workout buddy! I work out at Youfit and I have guest memberships!

I'm recently divorced. My ex-wife is still my best friend. Her and her fiance and his son are my room-mates. (I have my own space) If you have trouble with me being friends with my ex-wife, we will not work. All I can say is if we broke up... I'd probably remain friends with you too.
The first things people usually notice about me
My dimples. Then often people notice my butt. Then they notice my butt dimples.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Dan Millman (Way of the Peaceful Warrior, No Ordinary Moments), Robert Heinlein (To Sail Beyond the Sunset, Time Enough For Love, Number of the Beast, Friday, Stranger in a Strange Land, Starship Troopers.) Peter David (Q-in-Law, Q Squared, I Q, Imazadi, Imazadi II, Knight Life, comic book novelizations.) Ann Moura (Green Witchcraft 1,2,3. etc.), Christopher Penczak who is HAWT! (Sons of the Goddess, Magick of Reiki), JK Rowling (Harry Potter 1-7), Dan Brown (DaVinci Code, Angels and Demons) and many many more.

Movies: Birdman, Noises Off, Hudson Hawk, Clue, Pulp Fiction, Kill Bill, Sweeney Todd, Harry Potter films, The Incredibles, The Matrix series, The Lord of the Rings series, Chicago, All of the Marvel Cinematic Universe movies, Sunday In the Park with George, Into the Woods, A Little Night Music, Stephen Sondheim: Putting It Together, Barelaked Nadies, Talk to the Hand: BNL Concert, Rent, Princess Bride, Eddie Izzard: Dressed to Kill, The Mask, Space Balls, A Mighty Wind, Peaceful Warrior, The Celestene Prophesy, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Iron Man, Airplane!, Boy Culture, Dogma, Idiocracy, Kick Ass, Star Trek, Zombieland, Jerry Springer: The Opera Rosencrats and Gildenstern Are a Dead, Cabin In The Woods There are probably many more, that I can't think of right now.

TV: Doctor Who, The Blacklist, Gotham, Arrow, The Flash, Star Wars: The Clone Wars, Avatar: The Last Airbender (Because real Avatar's are not blue!), Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Stargate Universe, Heroes, Firefly (RIP), The Dollhouse (RIP), Lie to Me, Sports Night (RIP), Burn Notice, Family Guy, 30 Rock, Arrested Development (RIP).

Music: Barenaked Ladies, Walk Off The Earth Oingo Boingo, Adam Ant, Blues Traveler, Counting Crows, Razorlight, OK Go, Foo Fighters, The Monkeys, Flight of the Conchords, Stephen Lynch, Vertical Horizon, Billy Joel, Elton John, OK Go, Bob Dylan, Peter, Paul and Mary, Flobots, John Williams, Josh Groban, Razorlight, Robert Cray, Shining Wheel, Spiral Dance, Spiral Rhythm, Sister Hazel, Stephen Page, Scissor Sisters, The White Stripes, Warband, Weird Al Yankovic, Red Hot Chilly Peppers, The Who, Aerosmith and those are the big ones, but I'm sure I like a few others that are not popping to mind.

I am also a huge fan of musical theater. I am an amateur actor so being in musicals has really made me appreciate them. My favorite musical theater composer is Stephen Sondheim.

I also enjoy modern orchestral music. I'm not a big fan of "classical music" but I love movie scores.
The six things I could never do without
Intelligent conversation, A computer with internet connection. A flashlight of some sort. (I know this one sounds weird.) My Guitar. Music. An audience (with a sense of humor) to perform for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a LITTLE time thinking about EVERYTHING! So I never spend a lot of time thinking about any one thing. I'm easily distracted and so when I'm thinkin..OOO! Cumquats!.. See what I mean?
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical is another word, that's hard to find an answer for. My Fridays are greatly varied.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a funny, outgoing, outrageous, clown hiding a terrified little boy.
You should message me if
You want to enjoy the company of someone who is fun to be around. If you are looking for someone to play with. Go to an amusement park, watch the sun set, eat a fine meal, go hiking, or go see a theatrical performance. If you want someone who will make you laugh, or groan (Puns rock!)

I'm looking for someone to Duet with. I want to sing, and perform. No on in my life sings and I need some friends, partners, playmates who do. Karaoke, campfire guitar songs, whatever.

If you are looking for someone to get close to, and connect with. This may lead to any number of things after, but we'll just start with play. Also message me if you are wondering what the heck Green Witchcraft, Polyamory, Kabbalah, or Geocaching are.
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