Note: I am currently in a new and wonderful relationship with Tadisa and am focusing my attention on nurturing this amazing aspect of our lives, so I may not be logging on very often, and am currently not looking for anything romantic to add to my life. We are both poly though, so keep checking back to see if we can keep our wandering hands off each other long enough to discuss adding anyone else to our world. New friends are always welcome tho.
For some odd reason, OKCupid says that I enjoy sports. It says I like sports more than most people. In reality, I don't. Almost not at all. No sports. I watch the last 20 minutes of the SuperBowl and the World Series when one team has won 3 games. That's about it. Most game variants of Chase-A-Ball are pretty boring to me.
I am not a homebody. My job sometimes requires that I leave at 3am after being called a few minutes before. I have a fireman's schedule without the noble cause.
"Friend" is a very important word to me and I don't throw it around lightly. I tend to move slowly into new relationships, both romantic and platonic. I meet people easily, but it takes awhile to really get close. The interim is fun though!
I am polyamorous. Please read this, because this is misunderstood more often than I care to mention. I have now, and most likely always will have, more than one COMMITTED and LOVING relationship. I love very freely. This is an important aspect of who I am. My current partner is also poly. My partner(s) will meet you before anything happens. I do not sneak around behind my partner's back, or your partner's back.
I am a direct person. I am direct because I suck at responding to or recognizing hints. If you need to let me know something, the best method is to use a bullhorn and a sledgehammer.
I am low-fat, spray-painted, and durable.
b) Anything directed by Stanley Kubrick or Terry Gilliam, Brain Candy, Glengarry Glenn Ross, Last Temptation of Christ (not to be confused with the piece of shit Mel Gibson snuff movie, "Passion of ..."), Citizen Kane, Mystery Men, all the Star Trek movies (even number III), bad B action or horror films, and good sci-fi.
e) Sushi, steak, pastrami, asparagus, lox and cream cheese bagels. These are my favorites, but I'm an omnivore. Ain't picky, except when it comes to pizza. I've been to Napoli, Italy, and the only pizza I can stand has to be made by someone from either there, NYC, or Chicago.
Or if you have a nice butt I can look at.