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My self-summary
Ah the self-summary -- my time to shine!

Note: I am currently in a new and wonderful relationship with Tadisa and am focusing my attention on nurturing this amazing aspect of our lives, so I may not be logging on very often, and am currently not looking for anything romantic to add to my life. We are both poly though, so keep checking back to see if we can keep our wandering hands off each other long enough to discuss adding anyone else to our world. New friends are always welcome tho.

Lessee here ... where to start? I am a nomadic person who enjoys new experiences and places. I love to travel long distances in my car to see Friends or to go to a new theatre job.

For some odd reason, OKCupid says that I enjoy sports. It says I like sports more than most people. In reality, I don't. Almost not at all. No sports. I watch the last 20 minutes of the SuperBowl and the World Series when one team has won 3 games. That's about it. Most game variants of Chase-A-Ball are pretty boring to me.

I am not a homebody. My job sometimes requires that I leave at 3am after being called a few minutes before. I have a fireman's schedule without the noble cause.

"Friend" is a very important word to me and I don't throw it around lightly. I tend to move slowly into new relationships, both romantic and platonic. I meet people easily, but it takes awhile to really get close. The interim is fun though!

I am polyamorous. Please read this, because this is misunderstood more often than I care to mention. I have now, and most likely always will have, more than one COMMITTED and LOVING relationship. I love very freely. This is an important aspect of who I am. My current partner is also poly. My partner(s) will meet you before anything happens. I do not sneak around behind my partner's back, or your partner's back.

I am a direct person. I am direct because I suck at responding to or recognizing hints. If you need to let me know something, the best method is to use a bullhorn and a sledgehammer.

I enjoy motorcycling, scuba diving, Bugs Bunny cartoons, bizarre comedy, live theatre, hiking, Homestar Runner, and sex.

I am low-fat, spray-painted, and durable.
What I’m doing with my life
Currently, I am working as an entertainment lighting designer/programmer contractor aboard cruise ships. I am immensely happy to have gone from being full-time crew to short-term designer. When not on ship, I freelance as a lighting programmer and stagehand in central Florida, and am about to tour with a traveling circus troupe around the US for six weeks. Just call me Toby Tyler (MAD bonus points if you know that reference). I have been happy to say for over a decade that computers are my hobby and theatre is my career. I plan to continue touring with a band or travelling theatre company and eventually retire into a magnet high school or community college teaching and directing theatre shows.
I’m really good at
Listening, working with anything that goes beep, back rubs, front rubs, loving, singing, making people laugh, poetry.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes from the front, my butt from the back, my voice in the dark, my kindness in a clinch.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
a) Anything by Robert Heinlein, Terry Pratchett or Douglas Adams. I also like quite a bit of Chuck Palunhiuk and love the book, Geek Love by Katherine Dunn. In non-fiction, I have been on a Richard Dawkins and Christopher Hitchens kick lately.

b) Anything directed by Stanley Kubrick or Terry Gilliam, Brain Candy, Glengarry Glenn Ross, Last Temptation of Christ (not to be confused with the piece of shit Mel Gibson snuff movie, "Passion of ..."), Citizen Kane, Mystery Men, all the Star Trek movies (even number III), bad B action or horror films, and good sci-fi.

c) Breaking Bad, Star Trek, Mythbusters, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, Bugs Bunny, Powerpuff Girls (stop laughing. I SAID STOP LAUGHING DAMN YOU!), Battlestar Galactica, and Rachel Maddow.

d) Phish, Dave Matthews, Led Zep, Pink Floyd, Doors, Underworld, early Bjork, Oingo Boingo, Jimi Hendrix, Johnny Cash, Beethoven, Tom Waits, They Might Be Giants, The Police and early Sting.

e) Sushi, steak, pastrami, asparagus, lox and cream cheese bagels. These are my favorites, but I'm an omnivore. Ain't picky, except when it comes to pizza. I've been to Napoli, Italy, and the only pizza I can stand has to be made by someone from either there, NYC, or Chicago.

Six things I could never do without
Sushi, love, Friends, sex, protons and electrons. Neutrons I can take or leave -- just sittin' in the ol' nucleus taking up space with their neutral charge. Ya know what? That actually pisses me off. Fuck neutrons.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, music, Friends, love, sushi, and what I am going to talk about on the phone tonight. In that order. And about how little I am into sports.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working -- the nature of my job demands that I work while others play. My playtime usually finds me travelling to Friends' houses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have impure thoughts for which I never plan to repent. And I don't like sports.
You should message me if
You are openminded and can accept me for the person I am.

Or if you have a nice butt I can look at.


The two of us