30Oakland, United States
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My self-summary
"Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself, I am large, I contain multitudes."
What I’m doing with my life
I grew up in the East Bay with KPFA left on the car radio. It stuck, a background rumbling against the gap between how things are and how they ought to be. The sound fades in and out as I shift attention between political and personal projects.

I sell my time to Google. I give my time to friends, fun, and doing my part to close that gap. I travel. I occupy. I participate. I like when I make art and other things. I'm putting time into an amazing collective house and urban farm.

I used to teach 6th grade science. Before that I ran a homeless youth drop in center. I studied computer science and cognitive science.

A breakdown of my username (phonym):
Nym: an anonymous name
Phony: fraudulent
Phoneme: a unit of sound in a language
Six things I could never do without
A pattern with a tendency to repeat itself imperfectly
A physical form
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Distilling intent into action.
On a typical Friday night I am
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
"We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be.” ― Kurt Vonnegut
You should message me if
I am in a committed relationship. I am primarily seeking community in my neighborhood and friends with shared interests.

Message me if you have something to add to or cross off of this to-do list:
* Musee Mechanic
* Japanese Garden in Golden Gate park
* Swimming at Baker Beach
* Campaign finance reform
* Kites at the Berkeley Marina
* More biking and camping
* Making more time
* Fireside music and story night
* Exploring
* Building things
* Dinner and board game nights
* East Bay Bike Party
* Interesting lectures
The two of us