While I am pretty much at 'peak privilege' as a cis/white/het (mostly)/male, I do my best to be a good ally to everyone who doesn't fall into all of these various privleged categories. I'm far from a 'manly man' - if you are looking for someone who is into sports and likes drinking beer, you can move along to the next profile now. My mother-in-law was quite convinced that I was an FtM transexual for many years - it's a pretty funny story - Happy to share if you are interested.
My day job is pretty analytical - but I consider myself pretty artistic overall - I've been doing photography and digital art for many years, and have recently started turning my artwork into jewellery. I've always been struck by how beautiful science and nature is, and so my jewellery generally has a scientific theme - photos of interference patterns from soap film - processed data from the Hubble Space Telescope, smoke floating through the air - that kind of thing.
I've been polyamorous for many years - I'm currently one-end of a committed poly 'V' that's been together since 2007, living together and raising our daughter together.
More concretely - I've got a day job at a huge software company that is surprisingly *not* soul-sucking, a wife, 'co-husband', and daughter who I love to hang out with, An etsy store selling my jewellery that is starting to pick up steam, and perhaps a little less 'spare' time than I'd like... But damn, if I don't say so myself - life is good.
I'm a pretty good cook - I like cooking, and tend to produce pretty good food pretty consistently. I'm also getting pretty good at taking existing recipes and coming up with gluten-free / dairy-free versions of them. I've got some great gluten/dairy free cookie recipes if you want 'em!
Movies: Princess Bride, Fifth Element, Donnie Darko, many others
Music: Heather Dale, Jethro Tull, The Cruxshadows, most things aside from traditional country.
Games: Fallout (Playing Fallout 4 with my Wife), Starbound (Playing with my daughter), Kerbal Space Program, Carcassone, Pandemic
Food: Thai food - it's all about the coconut milk and the basil, Indian food, interesting pizza prepared on the bbq, very old cheddar.
While I'm not necessarily opposed to 'no-strings-attached' sex (I personally don't think it should ever really be 'casual'), what I'm generally the most interested in is someone I can have amazing and fascinating conversations with, lovely walks in the park, maybe reading a book to each other under a tree, that kind of thing... Of course, if it is followed by some mind-blowing sex, that's even better.