37 Fremont, United States
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My self-summary
Like just about everyone else I've run into on OkCupid, I'm poly/bi.

I'm also agnostic. Basically, most theories of what makes the world the way it is have huge, gaping holes in them, so I stay open-minded about the "ultimate truth". I'm also willing to accept that the paranormal can be true. You can't deny hard evidence, and both myself and several of my friends are plainly empathic.

My personal philosophy on life is that there is so many things going on in so many places which you have no hope of truly understanding that you may as well make sure you and those you care about are happy and not worry too much about the rest. As you might guess, this both makes me very "tribal" in nature (the "tribe" being my extended group of friends and the tribe's needs come before my own) and very non-political.

This site really seems to concern itself with sex, so here's my point of view: Sex is just a form of expression. Yes, most people use it just to express love, but sex is not the only way to express love, nor is love the only thing which sex can express. Sometimes, sex can be fun for its own sake and love is more important than (and not dependent upon) sex to my happiness. When having sex, I love experimentation, simply because it's a creative form of expression. I'm always open to new things, but constant experimentation or "kink" certainly isn't necessary for long-term enjoyment. Hell, most of the time, I'm just as happy cuddling up next to someone, no sex involved.

I am mercurial, silly, and compassionate.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tall. Fuzzy. Wearing a none-too-bright expression on my face. (I'm easily distracted, so it's not hard to catch me "changing gears".)
The six things I could never do without
My friends, rain, good books, good music...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Other people. Seriously, sometimes it seems like people are all that's really worthwhile in life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having fun with my friends. Hanging out, going to dinner, catching a movie... whatever strikes us.
You should message me if
You're local and what I've written in my profile actually makes sense to you. I've got that "special" kind of logic in my brain that makes things seem to make sense until other people hear/read it.