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My self-summary
Sex positive, queer, feminist downtown-dweller. Not looking for anyone to take up all my time or somehow complete me as a person. I feel 78% better in nice lipstick. I love sci-fi and having colourful eyebrows.

I value self-awareness more than almost anything else.

Optimist through lots of work - cynicism isn't necessarily wisdom.

Taking some time off from school to focus on other stuff right now but academia will likely get me back soon. Deeply interested in queer theory, theories of identity, and personality.

I'm a sucker for clean sheets, long hair, and femininity.

I put a lot into everything.
What I’m doing with my life
Working at a lovely independent small business and trying not to be an asshole
I’m really good at
Letting my eyebrows get kinda messy, wearing pants that are too big for me, communicating so much it's annoying, watching entire seasons of TV shows in single sittings, procrastinating for too long before I go to work, researching the crap out of things before I buy them, wearing a full face makeup to go to the corner store, hugs, layering clothing to stay warm, owning so many pairs of thick wool socks I can mix and match, shopping online almost always but never buying anything, eating sweet potatoes, getting sinus infections, being a shit to people until I'm comfortable with them and resuming once I'm really comfortable, forgetting to text people back
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not sure, seeing as I rarely see myself for the first time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I really enjoy Augusten Burroughs and everything that comes from him. David Sedaris is also quite good. I enjoy basically anything that Guillermo del Toro directs... I like things that don't really fit well into a genre, like Cake, but also old school country, like Tanya Tucker. Been listening to a lot of Scroobius Pip and Chance the Rapper lately. Dresden Dolls. Talking Heads. I enjoy carbs.
Six things I could never do without
Friends, honest blunt communication, a private space of my own, makeup, something to fiddle with awkwardly, defense mechanisms
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Things that invariably end up upsetting me. Also things that make me happy. Occasionally even the odd thing I have no strong opinion about!

Whether I'm cool enough or my bones are good enough to either shave my head or rock AFP brows

Reconciling things

Interpersonal relationships and how those work. What differentiates romantic love from companionate love (spoiler: I'm not sure anything at all) in practice rather than in theory.
On a typical Friday night I am
Figuring out what a typical Friday night means for me
You should message me if
you feel that it would be a good idea and don't mind a crass (although generally friendly) response
you can do the wave with your eyebrows
you are peculiarly pretty
you are nocturnal, or at least willing to be awake well into the night
The two of us