42Wentzville, United States
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My self-summary
First line disclaimer: I am here to actually date, not videochat, or message for months on end. I think the more people we meet and try out the closer we are to finding the one who we are meant to be with.

As you can tell by my pictures; I am blonde, good rack, and love to have fun when out with friends. What you can't see; green eyes, sharp wit, enjoys quiet evenings on the patio with a book and a drink.

I am looking for fun. I dislike saying relationship or long term this, short term that. What is wrong with meeting for a drink and seeing if it is worth our time? I have learned with lots of experience, so let me say it up front.....I will NOT sleep with you on a first date. If that is what you are looking for, then you may move on along.

I think it is silly to be on a dating website and not date. I have been out with many a person from this site. I have indeed made some friends. I have dated some for a few months. I have gone on an uncountable amount of 1st dates. Good stories!!!

I know what attributes I am looking for...Honesty is number 1.
Then there is funny, someone who likes to debate a topic, works for a living, doesn't drive a smart car...this is a deal breaker, likes sports, and is a general mans-man. If you like to get your hands dirty...mmm hot!!!

Some quickie pointers about me:
- I own my own home
- I work a gazillion hours a week, and work even when I am not at work.
- Love stimulating converstion and debating opposing viewpoints.
- I have no desire to have any children of my own. Yet odd twist of fate has given me the greatest kid ever to raise. My nephew is the best gift ever and doing our country proud in the Army.
- I come across as strong and confident (can do it on my own attitude), when I really like to snuggle and have someone else take charge.
- I am my fathers daughter, he taught me how to fix and do almost anything around the house and yard.
- I have a clean bill of health and my own straight white teeth.
- I am anti-drama, if you have any I am not the girl for you.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a workaholic. I enjoy the challenge of work and do not complain about the number of hours I work a week. I have drive, I am constantly trying to better myself. I plan to retire younger than most.
When I am home I like to cook and play in my yard. Sitting on the patio with an adult beverage is as relaxing as it gets.
I’m really good at
The first things people usually notice about me
Most everyone says my smile......I really want to meet the person that realizes my smart ass potential and goes with my dry wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books....Kindle Unlimited is the best invention, ever. I start one as soon as I finish another.

Movies....Loud action and comedies. Love anything I can can take a quote from and apply to a conversation.

Food....Anything. I will try anything once. My theory is if you don't like it, then go to McDonalds, there is one on every corner. I like the spicier and hotter the better. Thai, hot wings, mexican, oh and wasabi.. sushi would not be nearly as delicious without it. When I'm not consuming vodka, beer or coffee...I LOVE a good red Zin and a bloody rare steak! Food of the GODS!!!(Last sentence spoken in high pitched angelic voice!)
Six things I could never do without
My kiddo, my dogs, BFF Sara, flipflops and a great lipgloss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What next, what do I need to accomplish today so later I can sit and have a drink?
On a typical Friday night I am
Unwinding on the patio with a book and a beverage.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love love love candy, not chocolate..but CANDY! Nerds, Jolly ranchers, starburst, hot tamales. As for my addiction, I try to only feed it once a week and only in my office as a healthy lunch substitute.
You should message me if
You like anything I've typed.
Your first stop was not my picture page...I know I'm cute...I hear that frequently(vomit).
You are single, as in NOT-married...sorry I don't do couples.
You live in the same geographical area. Why would you message me from another state?
I am looking for a man not a 40 year old boy.
The two of us