38 San Diego, United States
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My self-summary
OK, does everyone on this thing do yoga, beach handstands, shoot guns, skydive, an InstaModel, is a foodie, owner of a baby tiger, a CrossFitter & drink craft beer? Geez! LOL

**I'm PJ. If you didn't read this, I'll know...and I'll judge you :)
What I’m doing with my life
sound designer and development... traveling... eating... mma training... literal ninja/samurai training(no joke - i have swords - seriously - dont laugh)... teaching my little lady what love and respect is... appreciating the little things...
I’m really good at
understanding a situation and articulating the appropriate response. best compliment ive ever received was that I was "emotionally intelligent." im a fixer; a problem solver.
The first things people usually notice about me
dunno. i guess, im bigger than i look in pictures. havent thought about it... plus, I somehow look different in all my pics... oh, and that i am addicted to using ellipsis "..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: the god delusion, freakenomics, the rule of two -
movies: brazil, contact, coming to america, the game, B2TF II -
shows: the wire, louie, the newsroom, southland, homeland -
music: joao gilberto, fela kuti, juan atkins, ATCQ/common -
food: moto in chicago, il pirata in london, chicklicious in nyc -
The six things I could never do without
1.) my daughter
2.) rent money
3.) oxygen
4.) habitual use of ellipsis
5.) passport
6.) the internets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Thinking about how i will leave my mark... thinking about what to watch first on my DVR... thinking about why I dont dance more, go to the beach more and why I dont keep in touch with friends/family more... thinking about if my punctuation, spelling and grammar are not making me look like a fool... thinking about how my daughter will perceive what love is by my actions... thinking about how I will become the black Anthony Bourdain... thinking about how much money I could save by switching to Geico... thinking about how much answering this question is clearly a waste of time...
On a typical Friday night I am
watch Bill Maher on my extremely big-ass tv and hang with the peeps, usually. or, whatever random occasion calls. Maybe a movie premiere? A BBQ? Dunno.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have a real, no joke, clinical phobia. TRYPOPHOBIA. Google it at ur own peril.
You should message me if
you can get through the craziness without going "f*ck this guy, he's delusional." lol