43 Lawrence, United States
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My self-summary
I'm partnered in a non-monogamous relationship and looking to date others in similar situations or those accepting of consensual non-monogamy. I'm into transparency and reciprocity.

Music plays a big role in my life. But so do other things that make my mind happy.
What I’m doing with my life
.....or what it's doing to me.

I've spent most of my academic and professional life working in the fields of plant ecology, conservation and ethnobiology.

I've played music part-time for a big part of my life. Now, I focus on the accordion and think that this often maligned instrument is making a bold comeback.

I ran NCAA cross country and middle distance track & field once upon a time. My masochistic tendencies have mellowed since then.

I advocate for Lyme disease sufferers and work in raising awareness about this largely ignored epidemic.
I’m really good at
Critical thinking. Punnery. Scrabble and Boggle. Popping bubble wrap. Playing accordion. Identifying wild plants. Exposing double standards and hypocrisies (in myself and others). Playing sad songs on the accordion.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Fly-Truffler, The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn, Decomposition: A Music Manifesto, How to Talk Dirty and Influence People, How Music Works (David Byrne)

Movies: The Last Picture Show, Best in Show (Everything Christopher Guest), Dead Man, Blazing Saddles, Wings of Desire, Coen Bros, David Lynch, Jim Jarmusch, Wes Anderson, Werner Herzog.

Music: Balkan music, Townes Van Zandt, Gillian Welch, Thelonious Monk, Charles Mingus, Robert Zimmerman, Taraf de Haidouks, The Magnetic Fields, John Zorn, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Tom Zé, Doc Watson, Tin Hat, Django Reinhardt,
The six things I could never do without
music, intellectual stimulation, high fives, a little sugar in my bowl, chocolate and music again.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the hows and whys.
On a typical Friday night I am
with my ear to the ground, listening for a good time.
You should message me if
you want to open up and share.