50Lancaster, United States
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My self-summary
I am playful, adventurous, and gentle.

If you rate me highly, send me a message. I'm not a paying member. I can't see that you liked what you saw and read.
What I’m doing with my life
I goof off. I try to be an attentive uncle. I wonder how change actually happens (personal and social.) I read lots of books. I try to be an ally against any oppression, have a strong critique of u.s. militarism, believe in the Oxford comma, and like warmer climates.

I'm looking for a date, a movie, a conversation, a place to go hiking, a new restaurant to try, an adventure, a book discussion, a surprise, or a getting naked and having fun.

If you're curious by nature, a reader, a thinker, a social change activist, or a personal growth workshop junkie we might be a match.

In the long run can you imagine an evening of scrabble or bridge? How about board games with my niece and nephew? Helping host friends for dinner? A Sunday dinner with my extended family? If you're interested in these things we'll more likely spend years together.
I’m really good at
Listening, being creative, finding playful alternatives, being present. I'm pretty good at cooking and driving somewhere for the weekend.
The first things people usually notice about me
my gap toothed smile
my smoldering brilliance
my sharpie scratching across the sheet
my cheap shoes that try to look like they aren't
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like spicy books, melodious foods, and a good story in any medium.

I read lots of fantasy, science fiction, and other stuff too.

I have a satellite radio connection in my PriusC and am listening to classical symphonies, dance/electronica, and broadway showtunes.
Six things I could never do without
My sense of humour.
Science fiction.
Hope for better solutions.
A cluttered creative workspace.
Miscounting to six.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whether change is possible.
Solar panels.
Edible wild plants of Pennsylvania.
Get rich quick schemes.
Justice and Peacebuilding.
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner with friends. Reading a book. Relaxing or napping at the end of the week. Going out for a walk to see who's out and about.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I looked at your pictures before I read your profile.
You should message me if
Something here caught your interest. You're looking to meet someone creative and playful for conversation or a walk in a park, through the city, or up a hill. If you like thai food, indian food, science fiction, or finding a good bargain.
The two of us