pmcdermo
49 Port Coquitlam, Canada
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My self-summary
Ive been back on here for nearly a year now, I have gone with the cookie cutter "about me" for that time and alas no success, so Ill try a more direct approach, and please dont get me wrong, I'm not writing this with any distain. Lets begin, in my experiences with women I have, or have seemed to have learned what a woman is looking for in a man. Ill describe me as what I feel about myself, my friends and co-workers have described and most women (come on, lets be honest, not every X still loves us lol) I have dated.

Im attractive (Ive been told), fit, educated, funny, great job, self sufficient, faithfull, sexual, love to cook for a woman, car, overcome adversity and the better for it, loving father, great kisser and lover, dont do drugs at all,Im not married nor have a girlfriend, attentive, gym 5-6 days a week, honest, etc etc, all good qualities right? So let me ask you all why its so difficult to meet anyone here? Im not a creep, stalker or DB, I know this site is full of them but come on, some of us are decent. I message women who I think would be compatible, looks, interests, body type, height, weight etc yet very very little responses. Im never rude, always polite. I think at this point Im not looking for anyone but more so wanting to learn what does it really take to meet that someone. I believe its one of two things, either there are TONS of perfect men here that are being scooped up and I dont make that cut or 2, no one really wants to meet. I have respectfully asked a few women why they would not want to meet me and got some interesting responses.

So please, if I message you and you respond, it doesnt mean I want to show up on a first date and want sex, ask you to marry me or stalk you lol. Im very very picky, I've had a number of first meets in the last year and only one second date, it doesnt mean the women I met are not good enough, in fact most are very very sweet (and some really crazy ones!), I just couldnt see long term with them, or they couldnt see long term with me. Yes I know what Im looking for and wont settle for the sake of settling. So after a year of the canned "about me" lets see if honesty makes a difference, and if it doesnt, well I guess this site is so chalked full of perfect men guys like me dont stand a chance ;)
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