pofthep
50 Durham, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a professional guy searching for my soulmate. I would love to make a connection with someone who shares common interests. I have many passions which include: working out (Body Attack, Body Combat, Body Jam, and CXWorks), dancing, music, UNC Basketball, cooking, cars, traveling, and surrounding myself with a great group of friends.

I am patient, trustworthy, and passionate
What I’m doing with my life
I'm patiently waiting for the wind to blow something or someone exciting my way. Life is relatively manageable at the moment.
I’m really good at
Since I do have extensive experience working with people diagnosed with developmental disabilities and mental illness, I've developed a great deal of patience, understanding, and compassion. I've become a very good listener and truly interested in what people have to say.

I am very meticulous about having a clean and organized environment, albeit not to the point of obsession.

I've cooked since I was a young child. I grew up watching Julia Child and Justin Wilson. Gosh, does that really show my age??? My first job was to assist people with mental illness in developing their cooking skills. We had a great time together. My coworkers seem to enjoy my food, when we have our monthly potlucks. No one has passed out so far. Thank God!
The first things people usually notice about me
my accepting personality and inner peace.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite artists are:

Jill Scott, Floetry, John Legend, Meshelle Ndegeocello, Lela James, Joss Stone, Chrisette Michelle, Angie Stone, Robin Thicke, and the list goes on. I'm also a huge fan of dance, electronic, New Orleans Bounce, and house. Throw in a little international club music, and we are on the floor for hours.

Thai and Indian are my favorite types of cuisine. I'm always willing to try new things.
The six things I could never do without
family, friends, the internet, my cell phone, almond milk, and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
uuuummmm thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
spending time with my friends, going out to dinner, parties, happy hours, and hanging out at a local bar. On the flip-side, I'd like the opportunity to spend a quiet evening at home with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I consider myself a relatively open person to those who I've developed a trusted relationship. Once there, you can ask me anything. One interesting thing: I took a DNA from Ancestry.com. My test results came back 53% Sub-Saharan African, 45% European, and 2% Asian, which threw me for a loop. Overall, I'm just happy to be me!
You should message me if
you are interested in getting to know a great guy who is committed to making dating and/or a relationship work to the best of its potential.
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