Been searching for a needle in a haystack for too long. I'm 50 and I want to enjoy many many years with my partnerS. So with that being said - check me out. I make a great friend and lover.
Openly bisexual poly woman living with my male partner. I'm seeking an honest, bisexual or lesbian woman to be friends with (at first). I am not bi-curious - I KNOW that i love women. I find the female form beautiful. I am not talking about surgically enhanced to be beautiful. I love all natural shapes and sizes of women. As I said it is a beautiful form. I need a concert buddy, camping pal. And oh so much more. What I don't need is to add some spice to our sex life. I need, want and desire a relationship with *you*.
More often than not I can be found in blue jeans and a t-shirt. I hate wearing shoes. I love wearing a smile though. I flourish in the summer. Love to ride our Harley and go camping.
My house is lived in - however there isn't mold on the dirty dishes in the sink. It is always 4:20 at my place.
My body has given birth to 3 babies (adults now/yay me!!) and it shows.....meaning you won't find me gracing the cover of Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition. I'm perfectly fine with my body....if you aren't - then I guess you are the one with issues. And honestly I dont want to deal with your issues with my body shape/size. I may be a big chunky chick but I give off a vibe and I am a flirty chick so I get a lot of "offers"....and I like to flirt and play so it is all cool.
I like to be with fun, positive people. Even when times are tough a smile helps. I wear my heart on my sleeve. You'll never wonder where I stand on any subject. I am open and honest and know how to listen/speak - COMMUNICATION - is the word I'm looking for.
I'm fifty but visually I could pass for 38. When I was younger I was told I was an old soul. I still have an old soul but sometimes I feel/act like I am 16. I tend to like hanging out with a small group of friends/family. Not into loud bar scenes.
I am pretty low maintenance. I don't usually wear make-up or curl/flat iron my hair type of stuff.
I have fibromyalgia and a couple of other health issues (nothing contagious!). I herbally medicate so as not to get addicted to opiates/pain killers. Some days tho I do have to go pharmacological route for pain relief. I try to not let my illnesses/disabilities get in the way of leading a "normal" life. I still work full time. Still ride the Harley and go camping. I still get out and do. I dont want my illnesses to define me.
Singing when I drink (doesnt everybody?)....I'm not good at it but I *think* I am. I don't drink all the time but when I do I am a happy funny flirty chickie.
I'm a short smiling chunky chick with big boobs.
Music--- john hiatt, john mellencamp, tom petty, Alison Kraus/Robert plant combo, indigo girls, Adele, johnny cash, white stripes, pearl jam, beastie boys, blues, folk, indie, old country, Pink, black eyed peas, Moby, beck, pasty cline, Loretta Lynn, old Rolling Stones, Dylan,
Movies- --- pulp fiction, reservoir dogs, sling blade, shawshank redemption, captains courageous, scarlet pimpernel, Life of Pi, and Ohhhhh I've come across a movie that makes me laugh insanely -- Horrible Bosses. Love Deniro, Depp , Tarantino, Penn, Robert Altman, Coen Brothers, Terence Malik. I think Helen Mirren and Kathy Bates, Steve Buscimi, BillyBob Thornton are all sexy.......I could go on all night. I love movies- - old, new, classics, off beat, drama, period pieces, foreign, documentary, independent flicks
tv - netflix- house of cards,orange is new black, and a boatload of movies. Regular tv - blacklist, breaking bad & dexter are (were)quality viewing.
Food- -- comfort foods, Mexican foods, Thai, Chinese, Italian. I am a meat eater. Trying to b a little healthier by eating more fruits and vegetables though.
Kids - the two and 4 legged ones and my grandkids
My stupid smart phone