I once had a fabulous profile. Once upon a time I posted many great photos. My partner had a profile as well and we encouraged visitors to check out those profiles. I/we were totally open and transparent. Then one day, Someone I never met but who is connected to the same organization for which I work saw my profile. This person found polyamory offensive and couldn't understand how a married couple could consciously choose to be non monogamous. This person called my work and asked I be fired.
There was an investigation and a great deal of trouble. So, now i play the intentionally vague game. It sucks but I'm not sure what else to do. I'm happy to share photos and details if you ask for them.
Also, don't be the asshole that has to punish those with whom you disagree.
I'm trying to need less these days.
You want to visit a dungeon.
You value sincerity.