28Santa Barbara, United States
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My self-summary
I really appreciate it when I get messages that have a little more than just, "Hey whats up". First impressions aren't everything, but they do say a lot...

I've had both luck and misfortune with online dating, but I'm a pretty optimistic person so I haven't given up yet. :) I absolutely love being silly and try not to take things too seriously. That's not to say I'm not sensitive (see below), but I really try to make the best out of all situations. I'm pretty non confrontational, don't like fighting or arguing. I tend to see the good in people, which sometimes causes me to be too trusting. I'm very open and honest with people and I really appreciate someone who is the same way. I'm attracted to guys with confidence, being shy and reserved can sometimes be a turn off. I also love someone who can make me laugh (who doesn't though?). I'm more attracted to guys who are older or the same age as me. Just a preference I guess.

This test result about me is pretty accurate:
"The Sensitive Talker"
You are an emotional, talkative, social person. You are very open about your feelings, and you have a lot of friends with whom you can talk about them. You love to be in big crowds full of people, because this makes you feel comfortable and safe. When you are left alone with your own thoughts for too long, you tend to stress and worry. A good night out with your friends relieves that.
While you love people and can be quite extroverted, you are often nervous or shy of strangers. Your feelings are easily hurt, and you worry a lot about what other people are thinking about you. You want to be popular, and it upsets you to think that you aren't liked. Friends and family are very important to you, and you would bend over backwards to help them.
You are open and honest, and you love to share thoughts and opinions with your friends. When someone hurts you, it is difficult for you to hide your pain. Besides, hiding pain and bottling up emotions is unhealthy, and it never helps things in the long run. You are empathetic to other people's troubles, and will spend a lot of time trying to comfort someone who is crying - you know how it feels to hurt.

Overall, I'd like to meet someone who I can spend quality time with. If you think we'd get along, feel free to say hi :)
What I’m doing with my life
I'm living the post-college graduate/full-time job/in an amazing city kind of life. I love new adventures and meeting new people :) I like cooking and eating healthy. I like to work out and practice yoga, but I'm definitely not an exercise junkie. Did I mention I love wine? ;-)
I’m really good at
Tree pose. Frugal shopping. Being (or appearing to be) relaxed and at ease in most social situations. I have been told I'm very creative and have a good eye for artistic things.. Can play piano by ear, but I'm not extremely good at it. Sleeping in on the weekends. Mmm :)
The first things people usually notice about me
I tend to get compliments on my smile, teeth, and skin. So.. my face? Sort of a weird thing to answer. What do you notice?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Great Gatsby, The Help, The Lovely Bones, The Hunger Games

Movies: Her, Mean Girls, anything Disney, Moulin Rouge, Elf, Anchorman, (anything with Will Ferrell), Catfish, Mind-bending movies, great documentaries.

Shows: Bates Motel, Orphan Black, Breaking Bad, Rectify, Orange is the New Black, Weeds, anything narrated by David Attenborough, New Girl, GLEE, The Walking Dead, Girls, Prison Break, LOST, The Tudors, So You Think You Can Dance, Game of Thrones, Reign.
Six things I could never do without
Comfortable beds
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Random projects, what I'm going to cook, which wine bottle to open, travelling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either relaxing from the work week with a home cooked meal and a glass of wine or out with some friends enjoying cocktails and company. I like to mix it up :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I HATE needles/shots/injections... and I usually faint because of them.
You should message me if
You think we would be good friends, companions, matches, etc.

Footnote: must have a job, car, and general sense of direction in life.
The two of us