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My self-summary
An LGBT activist made a well known documentary called BrideGroom. If you haven’t seen it then I suggest watching it. The film, putting aside the tragic turn of events, shows a deep love and connection between 2 people – there isn’t a better example that I could relate to in my desire to finding that “one”.

I’m personally not interested in how often you do/don’t frequent the gym. Should someone have a little something to grab onto – fine by me. I do believe in taking care of yourself is important but don’t believe it has to be an unrealistic expectation that society has painted for us. Also, if you have a bunch of shirtless pictures on your profile I likely won’t respond or message you. There are other apps that cater more to the shallow crowd.

Something needs to be said about being more old fashioned and monogamy. These are 2 important key factors to me. I do believe in waiting to have sex until you share an emotional connection and not just a physical one. I’m close minded to the idea of open relationships or this modern idea that it is ok to sleep with other people when you’re in “love” with someone. Honestly…I think it’s just a cop-out to go sleep around.

Taking dating back to the basics is where my heart is. I’m not interested in you having a college education, your personal financials, employment status, etc… No, I am not saying none of those things don’t matter – having your shit together is absolutely important and attractive. I’m simply saying I will not be quick to judge anyone, remain open minded, and look past some things most people now-a-days hold up on a pedestal.

I’m interested in someone who is approachable, well presented, kind and easy to talk to - there are no games, continuous drama or over analyzation. Being vulnerable and opening yourself up to allow someone in is where it is at. I feel there is a huge cloud of unapproachability in the gay community,
unrealistic expectations, and people who complain often about their love life but aren’t willing to change.

There is a theme, in my experience, with a lack of effort in steady communication. I understand everyone is busy these days and have lives. I’m willing to make the time and put forth the effort in getting to know someone. I can’t do this alone and it needs to be a two-way street.

We’re at the end…finally! I will forewarn you I’ve never had a boyfriend. My dating skills may be a little rusty and I have some walls up. I will promise you my heart is always in the right place but I’ll need some time and a little patience. I don’t date anyone just to date. I am genuine in meeting that one who I’m supposed to be with and looking forward to the day it happens.
What I’m doing with my life
Looking to make a drastic change in every possible way (i.e. socially, personally, physically, occupationally, emotionally).
I’m really good at
Motivation! My personal motivation lets nothing stand in the way of me and my personal goals. Sometimes I try to pass on that motivation to others.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hair or eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Movies: Fried Green Tomatoes, House Bunny, the Notebook, Avatar, Live Free or Die Hard, 40 Yr. Old Virgin, Tyler Perry movies (love Madea), Da Vinci Code, Step Brothers, Waiting, pretty well rounded when it comes to movies.

Favorite TV Shows: the Good Wife, Real Housewives (guilty pleasure), True Blood, Dexter, Bewitched, I Love Lucy, Golden Girls, Game of Thrones, Shameless, Flipping Out

Favorite Books: A Walk to Remember, Toxin, Meg, Angels & Demons

Favorite Music: Mariah, Kelly Clarkson, Christina Aguilera, The Script, Beyonce, Michael Buble, Norah Jones, Josh Groban, Ray Charles, Aretha Franklin, Katie Perry, etc...

Favorite Food: The spicier the better! Thai or Indian even some sushi.
Six things I could never do without
1. Family
2. Food
3. Health
4. Clothes
5. Goals
6. Bed
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The ways I can improve myself and help others.
On a typical Friday night I am
With the family, at a shitty bar having some drinks, movies, enjoying a quiet evening in, or out at a shitty bar with friends having drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I seriously love raunchy black comedies such as: Tyler Perry films, Big Mama's House, Queens of Comedy, the Nutty Professor, etc....
You should message me if
Your fun, drama free, romantic, appreciates the smaller things in life, have your act together, enjoys traveling and getting out & experiencing new places, and have some sort of moral guidance/values. There is more but those are pretty key to me.
The two of us