properpseudonym
39 Asheville, United States
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My self-summary
Interested in sincerity, absurdity, vulnerability, individuality, curiosity, intimacy, innovation, discovery, irreverence, critical thinking, imagination, insight, inspiration & dancing.

Nicknames include: Kermit, Jitty, Jittness, Jitterbug, Carlos, Buford, Beeker, Masonic, Sergio, Mos Jef, el jefe, Sparklebear and Sweet Dick Willie.
What I’m doing with my life
Connecting with people and being the connective tissue amongst the creative community. Making the most of all endeavors and doing them all with a sense of purpose. Helping out in the non-profit world. Making it happen despite the odds.
I’m really good at
Finding fun activity options. Making playlists for people. Coming up with ridiculous jobs and inventions. Dunnoisms.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm a force of nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
BOOKS: Lately, I'm reading a lot of books on social and behavioral economics and catching upon non-fiction essentials. Contemporary Literature: authors like David Foster Wallace, Haruki Murakami, Jonathan Lethem. Also - read 'I Love Dick' by Chris Kraus (trust me, it's written by a woman & about much more than you think and is about to be a hit amazon show)

MUSIC: 'Tunes and Tangents' on 103.3 Asheville FM. Lots of old soul & old obscure rock music...Radiohead, Local Natives, Little Dragon, Anderson Paak, Grizzly Bear, Bon Iver, Aphex Twin, Frank Ocean, Miguel, Cashmere Cat, James Blake, Fleeteood Mac, Kendrick Lamar, Portishead, St. Vincent, Earl Sweatshirt, Caribou, Beirut, Ratatat, Beach House, Purity Ring, Sylvan Esso, The Weeknd, Sufjan Stevens, King Krule, Neil Young, Nina Simone, Nancy Sinatra, Bob Dylan, Department of Eagles, Broken Social Scene, The Walkmen, Broadcast, Jay-Z, Kanye West, Mos Def, De La Soul, A Tribe Called Quest.

MOVIES: Documentaries & stranger indie films by writer/directors like Terrence Malick, Noah Baumbach, Paul Thomas Anderson. I loved the movie 'her' and would love to talk to you about it!

TV: Documentary Now!, The Night of, Silicon Valley, The Knick, The Girlfriend Experience, Breaking Bad, True Detective, The Wire, Mad Men, Louie, Broad City, Eastbound & Down, GIRLS.
The six things I could never do without
Freedom
Connection
Autonomy
Art
Sex
Good Food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What am I going to eat? I think a lot about human nature in general, but also what is specific and unique about people and their individual perspective, perceptions, idiosyncrasies and duality. Will I ever be able to transcend time and space. What will the world be like in 5 years? 10? 20? 50? Why do people vote against their own self-interests?
On a typical Friday night I am
Out and about!
You should message me if
Are into taking chances and look forward to new experiences & adventures. You think you can keep up with me or at least want to try!
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