pumpkin_waffles
28 Mountain View, United States
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My self-summary
I'm a nerdy math teacher who just moved from Berkeley down to the south bay and looking for some people to show me around. To be upfront I want to say that I have a serious boyfriend and I'm poly. This means we are ethically non-monogamous and open to loving relationships with others. Please ask me about it :-)

To give a little more info, I am open to all different types of relationships. If I meet someone and there is great relationship potential I'd be interested in forming a relationship. If I meet someone who is fun in bed but not really interested in romantically then casual friends is fun too. If I meet a couple and I like both of them I might date both of them. If I date someone who is also interested in my partner we both might date this person. It's all on the table with me.

I like adventures and doing new things. I want to meet someone who is spontaneous, a little bit silly, and friendly. Someone who is thoughtful but also fun. Likes to talk but doesn't dominate the conversation. Outgoing but not full of him (or her) self. If you ever have used the term bro or alpha male to describe yourself we probably aren't a good match. I'm attracted to people and personalities. Appearance is far less important to me.
What I’m doing with my life
Finally finished school and now I'm working as a high school teacher. I love my job and I always look forward to work in the morning. I just wish work didn't start so early.

The remaining hours are spent blues dancing and baking. I'm also looking for blues dancing friends and people who are willing to try out the results of my baking.
I’m really good at
Talking about being poly. Really, I love to talk about it so ask away. I've also been told I make a mean pumpkin waffle.
The first things people usually notice about me
That I'm smiling. I tend to smile a lot. Sometimes I worry it makes me look goofy but my boyfriend says it's cute.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
You'll have to ask me out on a date and talk to me to figure out the answer to this question :-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The world around me. I love to watch people and talk about types of relationships. Specifically the non-monogamous type.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have no filter. Ask my anything and I'll tell you anything
You should message me if
Please be poly. I'm really not interested in mono boys right now. I'm actually pretty vanilla so if you are looking for kink or lots of casual sex I'm not your girl.

You should message me if you read my profile. And you have experience being poly. Even though I say this I know most of my messages will be from mono people. It's also a plus if you are in a relationship as I am very busy and can't be someone's main dish.

But what should you say in your message you ask? To break the ice:

tell me a story about you being poly
tell me your favorite thing about you
tell me your favorite food
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