To give a little more info, I am open to all different types of relationships. If I meet someone and there is great relationship potential I'd be interested in forming a relationship. If I meet someone who is fun in bed but not really interested in romantically then casual friends is fun too. If I meet a couple and I like both of them I might date both of them. If I date someone who is also interested in my partner we both might date this person. It's all on the table with me.
I like adventures and doing new things. I want to meet someone who is spontaneous, a little bit silly, and friendly. Someone who is thoughtful but also fun. Likes to talk but doesn't dominate the conversation. Outgoing but not full of him (or her) self. If you ever have used the term bro or alpha male to describe yourself we probably aren't a good match. I'm attracted to people and personalities. Appearance is far less important to me.
The remaining hours are spent blues dancing and baking. I'm also looking for blues dancing friends and people who are willing to try out the results of my baking.
You should message me if you read my profile. And you have experience being poly. Even though I say this I know most of my messages will be from mono people. It's also a plus if you are in a relationship as I am very busy and can't be someone's main dish.
But what should you say in your message you ask? To break the ice:
tell me a story about you being poly
tell me your favorite thing about you
tell me your favorite food