***So I just started my doctorate program in nursing and I've been swamped with work, so for now I will probably lay off the dating scene. I'll be back on though :-) (I do however come on here during my study breaks just to take my mind off of work)***
***Quick note: I understand this website is used by some to increase the names in their black book, to each his/her own. I on the other hand am not that person. So please, understand it doesn't matter how charming you are, that is not my style. Lets not waste either of our time by messaging me. I'm not a prude, but I am a pretty good girl with self respect.**** Thank you :-D
Why I'm on this website:
I'm a pretty busy lady and wanted to see what else is out there. The bar scene is not the best place to meet guys and I'm usually there to hang out with my friends, not shake my tail feather for random men. I'm not desperate, so I will take my time. I hope to find someone that I'm not only attracted to but can also be my best friend. I don't fall easily, but I know when I do it will be someone who is not perfect but special.
I am a positive person who wants to get as much out of life as I can. I want to be one of those people I admire who have seen the world and have plenty of life stories to tell. I have a long way to go and a lot of learning to do!!! I would like someone to join me.
I love my career, it gives me the opportunity to travel and help people; two of my passions in life. There is nothing like being there for someone when they need you the most. I plan to extend my education by getting my doctorate in nursing next Fall at USD. I'm a little nervous I will become a recluse while in school, but I'm going to only work part time so I can maintain a semi-normal life. Let's just say I will be planning a huge vacation for when I graduate!!!!
What I'm looking for:
It has been difficult to find a genuinely good guy in San Diego that I'm attracted to. I'm looking for someone who is easy going, willing to achieve their dreams, not a psycho, doesn't take longer than I do to get ready, goofy at times but can also talk about real issues, has a spontaneous side, not too much of a prude, likes to eat semi healthy, but can also splurge; Also, someone who is willing to try most things once, isn't trying to play games, knows what they want and also a gentleman who knows that having pictures in front of their bathroom mirror is a huge red flag to Doucheville. Someone who looks forward to game night with a family one day (key word: one day aka not soon). Also, when it comes to drinking I want someone who would like to have a beer with me or go wine/ bourbon tasting with me. I don't want someone who has to drink all the time, but I also don't want someone who never drinks. Extremes are not for me.
OK HERE GOES:
So physically, the first thing you'd notice about Ashzra would be her bright, warm smile. It has this quality about it that just sucks you in and makes you want to befriend her. Second, and yes this has to be said Ash, she very obviously has the best hiney I've ever seen in my life! (Ya, I said hiney).
Ok let's get serious here.
I've known Ashzra for about 11 years now and she is one of my very best friends. To myself and everyone else she has always been extremely loyal and has never once lost faith in me. She always has a listening ear with advice that comes from such a deep rooted passion to care for others; it's no wonder she is becoming a nurse practitioner... I couldn't think of a better career choice for her.
Ashzra can be shy at first but with a little push in the correct way she is also one of the most outgoing people I know. She is the one who gets everyone off their asses, out of their funk, and onto the dance floor. People follow her because she makes everything look like so much fun it's impossible not to catch on.
Ashzra has a strong desire to learn new things every day. I've never seen someone work so hard—in her studies and in her relationships—to make everything worthwhile. She is not and has never been a one night stand kind of girl. She has so much self respect that simply being around her has inspired me to be a better person. Not to say that she's a goody two shoes fellas, if you give her the respect and love she deserves, she will give it back ten fold; with love and affection as well as.... well... a very kinky side. (Sorry Ash, I had to say it... because if you end up dating one of these guys they've got to know that once the lion's out of the cage.... meow!!!)
It's safe to say that I will know Ashzra for the rest of my life. She never burns bridges unless they are with people who are bad for her. She listens. She offers massages. She is emotionally open yet grounded. She is a hard worker. She gives love endlessly. If she cares about you, she will stop what she's doing at the drop of a hat if you need her.
Guys, if you are lucky enough to be part of this lady's life, you'd better sweep her off her feet, because I've never met anyone more deserving in my life. Now get to work boys, you've got some serious woo-ing to do!!!
I LOVE YOU ASHZRA!
Movies/ TV: Man on Fire, The Painted Veil, Dumb and Dumber, Mystic River, Boondock Saints, the blue colloured comedy tour, Tosh.O, Friends, New Day (I often DVR it and watch it with my coffee early in the morning when the sun is just coming up... probably one of my favorite times of the day)......
Music: WELLL to tell you the truth I LOVE MUSIC, but I never have a clue who the singer of the lyrics are and couldn't tell you the title, but I could probably sing it for you if you started me out!!! PANDORA is one of my favorite apps. Some that I can remember: Billy Currington, Mumford and Sons, Whitney Houston, UB40, Sublime, Jason Alden, Elton John, Eagles, Tom Petty... list goes on
FOOD: I'm not picky, but I love sushi (I love rice-less rolls), shellfish, veggies and fruit and of course really good mexican food (beans!!!) I also enjoy ordering several things off the menu and splitting them.