48Buffalo, United States
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
Join today
Find great matches with our advanced matching system!
My self-summary
I'm not a 9-5 person, which makes me sort of an anytime person. Looking for someone who enjoys going out or staying in, news that isn't gossip, has an awareness of current events that don't involve Linsday Lohan, and I'm not fussy about where you've been but more interested in where you'd like to go.

I am funny, honest, and kinda smart
What I’m doing with my life
My job is time consuming, but I'm spending more time away, more time with friends, more time on personal goals. Looking forward to spring so I can plant my front garden, hoping the cat trims down once the windows can be opened and he can jump up in them, going to the gym, enjoying my iPod more than people half my age, looking to always have a book going this year - so far, so good.
I’m really good at
Noticing details and keeping the conversation going.
The first things people usually notice about me
I notice details and like to keep the conversation going.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
History, David McCullough, David Halberstam, current affairs and economics, Paul Krugman. Fiction - Raymond Carver, Salinger (not Catcher in the Rye, though), Milan Kundera. Poetry - Frost, Sandburg.
Movies - old stuff like Bogart and Cagney. Favorite film: Local Hero (1982). Foreign films - Lives of Others. Music - alternative, jazz, 80's and 90's garage band stuff. Food - Indian, Italian, Left Bank, La Dolce Vida, the good stuff on Hertel.
Six things I could never do without
My house with a cat in it that counts for two. My great friends and close relationships which makes more than six total. And coffee - there has to be coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What the next big thing will be - green energy, perhaps. What the country will be like in five years. Whether I should put money into maintaining my car or think about buying a new one. How I'm not wasting my vacation time this year. How quickly time can go past, but it seems to actually slow down when you're enjoying it. How I should remodel my bathroom (but it's clean, really).
On a typical Friday night I am
Usually working and looking forward to being off Sunday. But I'm flexible.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ha, ha, ha...no. Well, I have a lot of shoes and clothes for a man.
You should message me if
You aren't seeing someone else, you're looking for a relationship and are willing to have real discussions about where a relationship is going. You don't like games and nonsense. You are liberal and believe people are people. You respect a guy who keeps clean spare towels and fresh extra toothbrushes handy. You're fun, a bit sarcastic sometimes, and care about other people.
The two of us