reaction0
34 Lansing, United States
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My self-summary
I am in a committed, long term relationship (married for eight years, together for ten). We were monogamous for a large portion of that time, opened our relationship for some of it and settled into a sort of de facto triad, then closed it back up to really figure out what we both wanted. We finally settled on a sort of monogamish relationship, with the main rule being that any serious encounters involve us both. We both really enjoyed the feeling of connectedness and togetherness we felt when interacting together with someone else, but we're not looking for a serious emotional involvement.
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes if they're looking, my sense of humor if I'm talking. It's usually the sense of humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite books include a lot of both fiction (urban fantasy, anything by Donald Westlake, and almost anything else) and nonfiction (usually whatever subject I'm obsessed with learning about at the time).

Favorite TV: Breaking Bad, Arrested Development, Archer.
You should message me if
You have something interesting to say, or you think we might.
You're really interested in not-very-messy entanglements, pizza-and-Netflix hangouts, nerdy pastimes, and cats.
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