realchums01
40 West Greenwich, United States
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My self-summary
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I'm married but we're a polyamorous couple. We're both straight.This means that we're open to having other people in our lives. Single ladies or single men or couples are welcome in our lives.

I'm a curious explorer. I'm honest and straightforward. I value honesty, sincerity, generosity, kindness, trust and sense of humor in people. I have a philosophical and scientific bent, I analyze claims, deeds, ideas, thoughts, cultures, politics thoroughly and think about every minute aspect of life. I live in my brain. Truth is very important to me. Therefore, I'm a skeptic and an atheist.

I'm a strict man-woman "equalist". I guess that is the definition of feminist so you may think of me as one. In general, philosophically, I value equality, fairness, justice and freedom of speech the most. Therefore, I'm by default for gay rights, women's rights, human rights etc.

Intelligence in women is just as much of a turn on to me as is innocence, integrity and kindness and I seek to meet one that has these qualities. I do not expect to necessarily find a woman for romance or sexual relationship although if it so happens, that is a bonus. I'll be satisfied to meet a person on here that I connect with on an intellectual or emotional level. I'll be satisfied if I found a friend on here.

This is my self summary. I will come and edit this section if I think of more later. Meanwhile, please email me with any questions.

Update 02/19/2015
Wife has been living with her boyfriend in Indiana for last 3 months. We are currently contemplating how all us can live together. This potentially means that we'll be living as a family. I think it is important to emphasize here that all three of us are straight and we're in a "V" type of relationship

Update 04/26/2015
Our little dream of living together as a family has come to a standstill for now. Currently wife and her bf are still in Indiana and I'm living by myself in Rhode Island. There are no plans ahead for now.
What I’m doing with my life
I am an engineer by profession. Half of my time is spent at work or thinking about work. I try to be creative in my professional and personal life and love thinking outside the box.
I constantly fantasize about starting my own company and am constantly looking out for ideas that might benefit humanity in some way. People such as Elon Musk are my idols and I get a lot of inspiration from their work.
I’m really good at
Breaking the ice. Making a stupid joke.
The first things people usually notice about me
I do not know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
These things change frequently as I love to experiment.
Currently, Books by Massimo Pigulicci. I partially read lots of books and follow some blogs
Music- Rock of the likes of Guns N Roses
Food- Indian, Thai and Mexican
Inspiring movies such as Shawshank Redemption and thoughtful sci fi movies such as Gattaca, Soylent Green and I,Robot
I also enjoy a lot of stand up comedy. My fav comedian is louis CK.
The six things I could never do without
If I were stranded at a desert and was hungry and thirsty, i could do with out the internet. Actually if I had internet on my phone or just a regular cell phone, it might come in handy. I could call people to bring me some water. But what if the people that came by and brought me water had the intention to enslave me?
My freedom is important to me. I choose freedom over any type of slavery. But freedom comes with responsibility. So I try and be responsible as much as possible. At times though I feel total freedom is an illusion and is impossible. We can try and maximize it but can never be totally free.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I spend a lot of time thinking about my loved ones- my wife, my friends and my family. I think a lot about ethics and moral philosophy and science.
On a typical Friday night I am
working or wasting time
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I fantasize a lot about us (me and my wife) being in love with a couple where the ladies are the best friends and the men are the best friends and there is not a shred of jealousy in our relationships. I think that this would make me incredibly happy.
You should message me if
You have read my profile. You value what I value- honesty, sincerity, generosity, kindness, trust and sense of humor . You know about polyamory and understand what it is. It doesn't matter to me if you're married or single, bisexual or pan sexual.
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