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My self-summary
I'm not everyone's cup of tea, but I am a shot of mead dropped in a mug of hard cider.

I'm a smart, quirky, ubergeeky pagan poly. I'm in college full-time, trying to restart my professional life. I'm also newly divorced, so I'm restarting my personal life as well. I have a long-term girlfriend who I am *NOT* leaving. Thus, open/poly relationship.
*PLEASE READ* - I'm quite shy when approaching/meeting new people. If I messaged you, I found something about you intriguing enough to push past that. I'd rather get a 'Not interested' than no response.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a full-time college student majoring in Philosophy, with the intent to get my Masters in Library Science. I'd eventually like to be a librarian at a college or a museum curator.
I’m really good at
all things geek-related.... video games, computers, odd trivia, role-playing games. I'm ok at most sports, although I'm recovering from a long illness and am rebuilding my strength and endurance slowly.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm either very animated or very quiet, depending on my surroundings.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books - mainly sci-fi or fantasy - especially Heinlein, Weber, Pratchett, Lackey, Ringo, Harrison, Butcher and Stirling.
Movies - same
TV - same, but add Sons of Anarchy and most USA series like White Collar or Royal Pains. Currently binge-watching Psych again.
Music - 80's hair metal. No, I won't apologize for it. :)
Food - MEAT. and potatoes.
Six things I could never do without
My PC, my Kindle, my best friend, my RPG collection, my 'Ale and Whores' mug, and my writing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Politics, economics, and whether Hulk could beat Superman.
On a typical Friday night I am
Watching recorded TV, playing online, small social gatherings at friends' houses, or out doing random things.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I find simple, naked cuddling the most erotic thing imaginable.
You should message me if
You want to hang out with a guy who doesn't play games, doesn't want a relationship right off the bat, but won't treat you like you're disposable and will actually call the next day. You want a FWB situation with a man who can make it worth your while, and someday might be something more - I promise nothing, but rule nothing out either, in the fullness of time. Don't be shy - I only bite if you want me to.
The two of us